After sending emails to about 10 different girls I got the following message: "You have reached the limit for the maximum number of users you can contact per day. Please wait until tomorrow before mailing additional users." I came back "tomorrow" and was told to come back "tomorrow". Is this site free or isn't it?

http://mingle2.com/welcome/faq_message
Why did I encounter an email limit?
"We had to place a limit on first-contact
emails because of spammers. Basically, this
cuts down the number of first-contact emails
that one can send within a two-to-three-day
period (we can't divulge anymore information
about this limit). However, a member affected
by this limit will still be able to send an
unlimited number of emails to those with whom
he or she has already had some back-and-forth.
It should be noted that MinglePlus members
are exempt."

You will find that everything done on Mingle2
is for the benefit of the members.
All free.
Enjoy :-)

So, this site really isn't "free" (false advertising). If I pay for an upgrade than I can send unlimited first-time emails even if I'm a spammer?

This site is free. The limit is only on first time emails for the reason stated. Emails, IMs, forums, etc are free.

This site show I reached message limit .how can I magic again?help me

just curious, how many messages have you sent?

Same thing happen to me. Funny how the only reply I got was woman half my age in another state until I was told my free messaging was over. Right when I got a message with someone my age and local Then they wanted $ Yea right