Topic: second chance for love affair!?
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Jing05

Sat 07/05/14 01:40 AM

Nah... i don't believe in second chance in love...
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2469nascar

Sat 07/05/14 01:47 AM


Nah... i don't believe in second chance in love...
REALLY? there always a chance for love.never give up,you never know what might come along,bigsmile
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Jing05

Sat 07/05/14 02:04 AM



Nah... i don't believe in second chance in love...
REALLY? there always a chance for love.never give up,you never know what might come along,bigsmile


yup... coz i believe that if he or she hurt 1's they can hurt u again.
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2469nascar

Sat 07/05/14 02:10 AM

only if you let them,take your time and get to know them.most of the time you can see the true person.with time you will no if there real or not,only time i have been hert is when i rush into love,frustrated
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Sat 07/05/14 02:11 AM




Nah... i don't believe in second chance in love...
REALLY? there always a chance for love.never give up,you never know what might come along,bigsmile


yup... coz i believe that if he or she hurt 1's they can hurt u again.

Deuhh ... anyone you care about can hurt you, again and again and again and again and so on and so forth.

It's your own choice to open up to love or to shut the door out of fear to get hurt.
To me, giving someone a second chance depends on the circumstances. I cannot say "yes" or "no", it simply depends on the how why and what. And it also depends on your own ability to forgive and open up your heart again. Trust.

Clearly you can't. So move on.
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Unknow

Sat 07/05/14 03:12 AM

2nd chance ...maybe. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance. But 3rd, 4th and even 5th chance. Time to give it up! laugh laugh laugh sad2
Edited by Unknow on Sat 07/05/14 03:12 AM
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Thomas27

Sat 07/05/14 06:08 AM

That's why I don't have sex with the same woman more than once...
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CowboyGH

Sat 07/05/14 06:15 AM

I believe in second chances at love in all areas except an affair. If a woman is to cheat, that would end any and all relationships, further communications or anything with that woman. Nothing to talk about, just the two would go our separate ways because obviously I would not be able to give her what she needs. I don't share well lol. And if she does it once, who's to say she wouldn't do it again. There would always be that little thought in the back of the mind.
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pkh

Sat 07/05/14 07:59 AM

I too believe in second chances, were not perfect. We all make mistakes. The only thing that would be hard to accept would be cheating but I still would try
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soufiehere

Sat 07/05/14 09:08 AM

I think we all get a zillion chances.
An open heart sees all.
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Thomas27

Sat 07/05/14 09:28 AM


I believe in second chances at love in all areas except an affair. If a woman is to cheat, that would end any and all relationships, further communications or anything with that woman. Nothing to talk about, just the two would go our separate ways because obviously I would not be able to give her what she needs. I don't share well lol. And if she does it once, who's to say she wouldn't do it again. There would always be that little thought in the back of the mind.


What Would Jesus Do?
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MariahsFantasy

Sat 07/05/14 10:12 AM



I believe in second chances at love in all areas except an affair. If a woman is to cheat, that would end any and all relationships, further communications or anything with that woman. Nothing to talk about, just the two would go our separate ways because obviously I would not be able to give her what she needs. I don't share well lol. And if she does it once, who's to say she wouldn't do it again. There would always be that little thought in the back of the mind.


What Would Jesus Do?


And his followers?
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fallen_wolf

Sat 07/05/14 08:12 PM

loving someone its like u're in the open being vulnerable of getting hurt. and love does hurts. if it doesnt, it means nothing.

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kc0003

Sun 07/06/14 09:04 PM

not everyone deserves a second chance, what a silly notion.

sometimes people prove that to you straight away, it's up to you to recognize these people and place them in the correct category.
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MariahsFantasy

Sun 07/06/14 09:12 PM

Not with the same person.
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Tanzy14

Sun 07/06/14 09:30 PM

I tried that and I lasted 48 hours.....Next...
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kc0003

Sun 07/06/14 09:33 PM

ok, give me a minute to dress....
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dreamerana

Sun 07/06/14 09:37 PM

It really depends on the situation and the person. If it was a relationship that was good but other stress factors were involved, then yes. An example is someone I was getting to know. It was looking promising for a relationship.
He had to move back to San Diego because his daughter needed him. That's nine hours away from here. If he had come back and I wasn't already in a relationship, he would deserve a second opportunity.

There was an abusive, destructive relationship several years ago. I had to walk away because I had to love myself more. It would destroy me to go back and give him a second chance.

So it's really a case by case basis.
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0ldhag

Mon 07/07/14 09:08 PM


Nah... i don't believe in second chance in love...


Smart lady, I don't either. Things end for a reason.
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Tanzy14

Mon 07/07/14 09:35 PM


ok, give me a minute to dress....


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