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Copper Nitrogen Titanium

Mon 07/21/14 08:42 AM

People are visual creatures. It is not shallow or judgrmental to have a preference, it is natural.

Do a little something with your photo. Comb it out straight or put it up your hair. Accentuate your features. I am not saying wear make up, but if you choose to than do so. Smile. Look like you are happy in life.
Mopey moody people do not attract happy partners.
Every person alive pretty judges a partner on looks first. Whether they admit it or not.

As for your disability ..... it is not an excuse nor a crutch, stop using it as one. Being overly large is a choice, you can always change that.

Just my $0.02 worth

Vera

Tue 07/22/14 03:20 AM

why doesnt anyone give me a chance i know im handicapped and fat but u shouldnt judge a person who u havent even met in person or even known them long even enough to judge i dont judge anyone by their skin color or weight or if they have problems but yet they judge me because im not some skinny twig thats messed up in my eyes cause no one knows what the hell ive been through in the last 22 yrs im here trying to meet a man for a committed relationship and yet no one gives me a chance

Dear, your life has just begone. I tell you, it is possible. Sometimes the biggest handicap is in the mind. Many years ago a visit in Ghana was healing me! None of those people ever thought he is not beautiful. God gave me a husband when I throwed away my diaries, and same time was caring for others. I just got married, with a wonderful man from mingle2. My 128 kilo didn't matter. There is beauty on your inside dear. Show it on the ouside. There are things you love, if animals, or flowers. Look at them and snap yourself again. Feed your profile with things you are interested in. Love the people in the forum, because someone might be in need of your love. And suddenly .....