People are trying to help you and be honest about how you are coming across.
You say you want to hear it, but you dont take any of it in. You remain unchanged in your perception of how you are received even when you meet head on contradiction.
I dont know what the point of this thread is if its not simply for attention. Clearly its not for enlightenment. Clearly its not to learn from the perspectives of other people.
I have received emails like the ones you describe and delete them promptly because they are fanatical rather than friendly from a stranger. The empty promises of love are of no value to people who know you dont know them.
That said, I can only assume you are extremely needy and narcissistic. I think your behaviour is the result of wanting everyone to love YOU.
I hope you realise that, even tho you really do deserve love, it wont happen until they get to know you. Even the most amazingly wonderful person needs to spend time with a person and share who they are before they will get that.
Very well said klc, thank you! :) .. I know that a lot of you here are more experienced than me and a lot of you have more experience in life because you're older than me, you already live longer than me, so I'm really really sorry, I'm just 20 years old and I'm doing my best to think and act in your age..
And about what you said "You say you want to hear it, but you don't take any of it in".. I take heed to every words from the comments in my post but I'm really sorry if I don't take everything, because I just need take the things that will make me grow and will make me become a better person than what I am right now..
And about the point of this thread? This is just for fun :) .. I just intended to post this thread because I want everyone here in mingle2 to express there love to each other because I noticed that many of you are becoming more and more serious and becoming less sensitive to each other,come on, It's better and fun to act stupid sometimes
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And about what you said that I'm just extremely needy and narcissistic and that my behavior is just the result of wanting everyone to love ME. I think I said in my first post that men should love women even though women won't love them back, it's the same when I say, I will love women even though they won't love me back so I'm not expecting any love from women in return.
I swear I already realized what all of you are trying to say to me, I know that I can't really love all the women around the world because I'm just one and I'm just a human being and I still have my own limitations. But I'm trying my very best to show some care to every women specially here in mingle2 and I'm trying to apply what my mother had taught to me since I was a kid, that I should love women no matter what.
I know I deserved to be loved and everyone in this world deserved to be loved too, both men and women, so forgive me if I did a mistake in using or saying the word love so easily I know that it really means a lot to all of you. Don't worry I already learn a lot from all of you and I'm very thankful that all of you are really trying to help me out in making me a real man. Thank you so much to all of you!
I'm sorry if I really get serious about this things because It's becoming too personal already. I just want to tell to everyone that this post is not only intended for me, I intended to post this thread because I'm trying to provide a thread that will be enjoyed by everyone. A thread wherein everyone can freely express their love to each other, please I hope all of you may understand what i'm trying to say..
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angelwalker_14
on Mon 07/28/14 08:20 AM