I give up trying to figure out what some people mean. What's the point when it seems like no matter what, you're wrong in your thought process.
Accept yourself! I do ! Love everyone despite who or what they are and never judge others for we are all just imperfect human beings trying to learn about life's lessons and the imperfections within ourselves and in others as human beings ! Not an easy task for sure, but totally worth the effort if you can open your heart! It's difficult but not impossible... I KNOW that!