Topic: Just admit it...
Reply
Dodo_David's photo

Dodo_David

Sun 10/19/14 04:42 AM




Apologize for one's opinion? Why? Is one deliberately basing their opinion on erroneous information?

Apologize for being factually wrong? Why is someone speaking about something, knowing that what they're saying is factually incorrect?

what

Nope...I don't apologize very often, mostly because I don't knee-jerk react in an emotional manner to what others say or do, thus making it necessary TO apologize, later, after the heat-of-the-moment has passed.

It's kind of a variation of the old adage, "Better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you a fool, rather than open it and remove all doubt...[and then have to apologize for it, later]."

drinks















drinks



You believe only royalty has the ability to think before they speak, so as to not have to apologize, afterwards?

Really?


Why is that, that only royalty has that ability? Better education? Better social skills? More money? Something else?


I don't agree with your statement, but I'd love to read why you believe someone who knows better than say things they later need to apologize for,

equates to a queen lording over her peasants.

what


Calm down. Don't be a Pesto*.
You are reading too much into smartwithsparks' post. She wasn't trying to ruffle your feathers.
You have to have a sense of humor when participating in a discussion with us peasants. :tongue:

(*Pesto is a character in the comedy cartoon Animaniacs.)
19robert54's photo

19robert54

Sun 10/19/14 05:02 AM

Yes I did it, if I didn't do it I will do it as soon as I can,
mrld_ii's photo

mrld_ii

Sun 10/19/14 08:18 AM





Apologize for one's opinion? Why? Is one deliberately basing their opinion on erroneous information?

Apologize for being factually wrong? Why is someone speaking about something, knowing that what they're saying is factually incorrect?

what

Nope...I don't apologize very often, mostly because I don't knee-jerk react in an emotional manner to what others say or do, thus making it necessary TO apologize, later, after the heat-of-the-moment has passed.

It's kind of a variation of the old adage, "Better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you a fool, rather than open it and remove all doubt...[and then have to apologize for it, later]."

drinks















drinks



You believe only royalty has the ability to think before they speak, so as to not have to apologize, afterwards?

Really?


Why is that, that only royalty has that ability? Better education? Better social skills? More money? Something else?


I don't agree with your statement, but I'd love to read why you believe someone who knows better than say things they later need to apologize for,

equates to a queen lording over her peasants.

what


Calm down. Don't be a Pesto*.
You are reading too much into smartwithsparks' post. She wasn't trying to ruffle your feathers.
You have to have a sense of humor when participating in a discussion with us peasants. :tongue:

(*Pesto is a character in the comedy cartoon Animaniacs.)


Thank you for the clarification and direction.

I'm sorry...I don't have a lot of experience interacting with others who believe in and operate within caste systems, so I'll take your instructions to me under advisement,

dodo.

slaphead




no photo

fleta_n_mach

Sun 10/19/14 09:33 AM

eh, sometimes you just have to lift your skirts to see what's down there to side step the muck.

It does take finesse to debate with leaving out personal feelings, and keep a charming manner. I think it begins with respect and leaving an opening in dialog for the other person to find their way out of their paper bag.
"Yes, thank you for your point of view and I benefited from it."

Edited by fleta_n_mach on Sun 10/19/14 09:41 AM
Dodo_David's photo

Dodo_David

Mon 10/20/14 10:36 AM

The humble give sincere apologies because they know that they are fallible.

The arrogant won't give sincere apologies because their egos won't let them.




Goofball73's photo

Goofball73

Mon 10/20/14 11:16 AM




When I'm wrong, I admit it. It's not hard for me. I'm human and I'm always making errors, but I admit it...*shrugs*

Doesn't bother me, and I always learn from it.
Do you have a problem admitting you're wrong, or is it easy for you?

huh


Eh. I learned in my marriage that I was 99% wrong on EVERYTHING. So it was always easier to just say I was wrong and not put up a fight (when I knew I was right....which was 99% of the time). Maybe that's why we divorced. laugh