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navygirl

Fri 10/24/14 08:52 AM




It hard to find good love.it hard to find someone that not going to cheat.it hard to find someone tha going to be their for you 24/ 7.it hard to find someone that belive in love.i speand year waitng for miss right mmm myb she is dead long time ago.tell me why i dont find her? myb u can help me


Really you want someone 24/7? Are you looking for a girlfriend or a mommy? Sometimes; you have to let the person have their own space and time away from you.

Yes!! Absolutely! I was starting to feel choked just reading the OP


I don't understand that. My friend has been married over 28 years; another 32 years, an another 24 years, and lots of other long happy marriages and the secret to keeping their marriage strong is that they spend time apart which keeps their marriage strong. Everyone needs time away from the other person; no matter how much you love them. New research shows that happy long-married couples often say their secret is, "We give each other space." According to an unpublished study by Terri Orbuch, a psychologist and research professor at the University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research, having enough space or privacy in a relationship is more important for a couple's happiness than having a good sex life.
Edited by navygirl on Fri 10/24/14 08:59 AM
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Awatersign

Fri 10/24/14 11:08 AM





It hard to find good love.it hard to find someone that not going to cheat.it hard to find someone tha going to be their for you 24/ 7.it hard to find someone that belive in love.i speand year waitng for miss right mmm myb she is dead long time ago.tell me why i dont find her? myb u can help me


Really you want someone 24/7? Are you looking for a girlfriend or a mommy? Sometimes; you have to let the person have their own space and time away from you.

Yes!! Absolutely! I was starting to feel choked just reading the OP


I don't understand that. My friend has been married over 28 years; another 32 years, an another 24 years, and lots of other long happy marriages and the secret to keeping their marriage strong is that they spend time apart which keeps their marriage strong. Everyone needs time away from the other person; no matter how much you love them. New research shows that happy long-married couples often say their secret is, "We give each other space." According to an unpublished study by Terri Orbuch, a psychologist and research professor at the University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research, having enough space or privacy in a relationship is more important for a couple's happiness than having a good sex life.
Y'all making plenty sense,I think it also tests the relationship as well,but to much space may not be good too,cause if one or both of you aren't strong enough,there can be outside interference,example,some people may be to close with a friend of the opposite sex,and we all know how love often start from friendship!!
Edited by Awatersign on Fri 10/24/14 11:09 AM
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navygirl

Fri 10/24/14 06:37 PM




I don't understand that. My friend has been married over 28 years; another 32 years, an another 24 years, and lots of other long happy marriages and the secret to keeping their marriage strong is that they spend time apart which keeps their marriage strong. Everyone needs time away from the other person; no matter how much you love them. New research shows that happy long-married couples often say their secret is, "We give each other space." According to an unpublished study by Terri Orbuch, a psychologist and research professor at the University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research, having enough space or privacy in a relationship is more important for a couple's happiness than having a good sex life.

Y'all making plenty sense,I think it also tests the relationship as well,but to much space may not be good too,cause if one or both of you aren't strong enough,there can be outside interference,example,some people may be to close with a friend of the opposite sex,and we all know how love often start from friendship!!


Well; if you have to worry about losing someone to a close friend; then the relationship was never meant to be. Its called trust. My friend spent three weeks in Australia without his wife and did not cheat on her. Oh; he certainly looked but didn't touch.