I think it depends a GREAT deal on ones own surroundings and the perception that comes with that. ..
I've met (and dated) many bigger girls...I'm 6'3 and have ranged in weight from 212 to 297 at different times in my life...I personally prefer bigger girls.
but one thing I've seen is that even some of the smaller larger girls I've dated will see themselves as 'huge' sure there is a little extra but not that much...then I visit them at their work and they work around a bunch of anorexics, they are easily the biggest one there...so that's their expectation and what they base what they 'should' look like on.
but in the opposite end some of the bigger larger girls see themselves as 'big' but not THAT big....then again I visit them at their office and the people around them are HUGE in comparison to them...so they see themselves as 'overweight' but not 'obese' because they are comparing themselves to those around them....it's interesting of how our perception of 'normal' changes so quickly.
I'm sure a lot of foreigners that come to the U.S look around and say DAMN everyone here is HUGE, because their standard 'normal' is muxh smaller than a u.s 'normal'
so if you want a guy that's perfectly accepting of your particular size, try different states, many states the average 'normal' is much larger and you'd be seen as relatively fit
Edited by
isaac_dede
on Fri 08/21/15 03:44 PM