This issue about nice guys has been around before. What i was thinking is...do you think nice girls finish last as well?

Yes, its nieve to think of "nice guys" as good men. Like wise when you switch genders. All guys are simply a holes. That doesn't make them bad or anything though. Girls are simply young pups, they don't know any better and are really just learning and exploring.

Nice guys do not finish last..its da beeches that finish first bwahahahahaha

A lifetime of being nice has only brought me disappoinments and
frustration - I think there is something to that 'finishing last'
idea.

But you can't change things - I have tried and can't change myself
so - have to suck it up.

ayi tortoise dat not true ayt

Stick to your guns! nice guys do finish last if you're in a hurry but there is light at the end of the tunnel, I have a lifetime of being that guy with no regrets and earned respect of others by sticking to my guns.

I think men want their woman just like woman want their men..to be nice.. but also know when to be bad.. and know just how bad to be.

There is a time and place for everything

The picture that comes into my mind when I hear "nice guys finish last" is of a short, "nerdy" looking guy with a pocket protector just holding open the door for a line of people who never give him a chance to get inside himself LOL!

It really depends though...if the guy is "nice" in the meaning of: lets a woman cheat on him & take his money (even uses his money to cheat),& never figures it out or always takes her back etc. then yes he WILL finish last b/c he's just not standing up for himself.

If you mean nice as in he doesn't cheat, take crazy risks with his life or his $$, respects himself & women too much to have a one night stand or a hookup etc., then no he is just a gem waiting to be found by the right woman who will appreciate him, that will take time so it may appear he is last.

I'm just me! Bad guy when i need to be, but chilled out most of the time. My missus, 2 boys and my grandson, turn me into a big softie, but you wouldn't want to cross me if you were a guy, as i'm no fool!!

Nice thought... life is not a race.

congratulations for your new little ones!

Nah! I'm not fooled either...you are a very very NICE guy beneath all those bad guy camouflage!! (secret's out!!)

Doesn't matter if we finish first or last..... just be yourself!

I must be a nice guy, because when my late wife was alive, I always let her finish first.



Wait. What were we talking about again?

Cringe at the word "nice".

Even if they finish last, there's no guarantee if the relationship will last as well.

of course... the meek will not inherit anything ... in the animal kingdom, is it the slow, nice non - confrontational male that gets the female? no, never, it's the big wild bull that fights for everything that gets the harem...

Yes, but that's about men ...

I don't think nice girls finish last per say. Depends on what you understand to be 'nice' and 'finishing'...
I sometimes feel that, what I understand to be nice girls, end up in a relationship sooner.

Difficult question, it's not black and white. I don't even know what I am myself. Part of me is a nice girl but I do come with a rather erm .. naughty side, and that is quite a substantial part of me. Biggest problem I experience in finding love is that I don't want a 100% nice man nor a 100% 'bad' man.