Topic: Wow I'm not doing do good
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Chef333

Mon 01/26/15 08:03 AM

I can't start a conversation for the life of me!! I feel like no one of any age is willing to respond.
Anyone else having that issuse.
Happy Monday! Lol
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TBRich

Mon 01/26/15 08:09 AM

I am well known for walking up to anybody and start talking, it is harder over the internet though. First thing is not to care about the response
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DavidCommaGeek

Mon 01/26/15 08:26 AM

Yeah... starting off a conversation thread with "I can't start a conversation!" is kind of self-defeating... But that doesn't stop any of us from responding!
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tanyaann

Mon 01/26/15 08:34 AM

If you are talking about starting a conversation through email on here...

1. Know that the person may not be active on the site
2. They may not be interested (add more info to profile and more pictures)
3. Have patience

Lastly, participate on forums, here is where the conversation starts.
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Unknow

Mon 01/26/15 08:37 AM


I am well known for walking up to anybody and start talking, it is harder over the internet though. First thing is not to care about the response



I'm pretty sure attempting to initiate conversation is easier for most over the internet. Being rejected over the internet is also easier.
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Chef333

Mon 01/26/15 08:08 PM

All great advice!! eye opening
Thank you.
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Ladywind7

Mon 01/26/15 08:22 PM

How you fill out your profile is the most important. 4 or more pics with a smile is attractive. Also not filling in general details suggests you have something to hide or your lazy.
Tell you later in a blurb about yourself is a turn off too.
Saying 'your beautiful' in a message is too common.

Introduce yourself, ask an observant question about them to show you have read their profile and that ought to kick off a chat. Be brief btw, no rambling.
Good luck
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no1phD

Mon 01/26/15 08:29 PM

oops sorry.. I don't mean to interrupt.
.. I was just wondering if anybody has seen my dog...
..lol.. how hard is it to start a conversation..omg. lol
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panchovanilla

Mon 01/26/15 08:33 PM

Start out with a question, such as:
Have you ever had a first date in a prison visiting room?
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Scoobert

Mon 01/26/15 08:34 PM

Ruh roh Raggy! Ranyone rot a Scooby snack? Yum yum yum!:tongue:
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dreamerana

Mon 01/26/15 09:02 PM

conversations of many kinds are held here in the forums. feel free to jump in.
conversations in our inbox are less likely to be answered if we don't know anything about you. good luck