Anyone else ever get the feeling your heart was trying to escape out of your mouth when you try to talk to someone?
Oh yeeeaah,sure,took me a good while to get over it too,but my job helped me with that one,as I was forced to interact with people more,rather than crawling back in my shell as I often would,so it just comes natural now,like they say,"just be yourself",lmao but if being yourself is like how you are now,then DON'T be yourself ,come out off your shell ,out of your comfort zone,try and let it come natural to you,you don't have to say any type magic words lol,cracking the ice is all you need,to do that is more simple than you think,watch this,say you meet a nice attractive lady in the grocery store,you want to talk to her but scared and don't know what to say,you see her pick up a box of cereal,you can be like,wow,those are my favorite too,and she be like,oh my son actually like those,or my boyfrnd likes those,and there,you've gat a conversation already,and this where you gata be observant,is she smiling,does she look uncomfortable?And second,if she says,oh,my boyfrnd or,husband likes those,theeen,you would know that either she's taken,or not interested,it's really simple man,practice it with strangers ,anybody,good luck!