Relax, try not to over think it. Women like a man that can make them laugh, so joke with them a little, get them to laugh a bit and make it light and casual. Women also like a man that's not afraid to be an idiot at times and within reason, so dont worry about being nervous or what she may think. Just try not to be creepy or a jerk and you should do fine. You wont win them all, but even if you fail you will still be boosting your confidence, so you really can't lose.

yeah it usually happens when I drink too much.. but I don't think it's my heart trying to come out of my mouth..lol.. EW gross..

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There was a time long ago when I had no self confidence at all. Not only in relationship but in any contact with other people. If you wanted to find me, you should try the mousehole, was really shy and introvert. In those times to put a post somewhere like on M2 - not even in wildest imagination. For those who know me a bit from here - would you recognise that?
But it was a slow process, when I really met a lot people who saw what was nice in me and helped me to see it too. I also saw people of which I thought how remarkable they are, doing things I would never do. And then I understood and accepted that I�m not better but also not worse than anyone else. When I managed to accept that, everything changed and my fear of people and their critics disappeared. Now I have no problem to speak my mind - if I have something to say, or to show what I feel, or just simply to make fun. And wouldn�t have any problem to speak to president just as to a homeless man. We all have some good and some bad qualities.
Find out what are your good qualities, what is it what makes you unique - because there are such things in you. Be with people who know you and support you. Who are honest and ready to tell you good and bad. Support is not in telling only good things but also those which are not so pleasent. Be friendly and you�ll find out that many will be friendly to you too. With time your fear will decrease.

Wish you all the best and welcome to Mingle family

you may have more in common than you think with others. I suggest you practice thinking outside of yourself because first, they might be just as uneasy as you are, and second, it will help you mature to acquire some perception of how that other person is feeling while you both are conversing.

good luck.

Had a friend much like this that we convinced to just go for it.

After a while he was getting more dates than any of us. He would stammer at first, and then babble almost incomprehensibly but honestly (admitting how nervous he was.)

Apparently the girls found this adorable. We actually named this pick up method and other friends started doing the "Hugh Grant".

Yeah...I found out why they called it "HIGH"school. I just quit smoking 20 joints a day.Quit!
And listened for a few more years . You're in Edmonton? I have trouth moubles when its -30 to -40c.

OK I'm 5 hours away in GP working a few hours down the rocks but there is a guy in oil town called
no1Phd and he will be happy to tutor you.

Seriously be patient. you got a little sister?

maybe you could practice kissing on her? IDK..just putting it out there.

Sometimes we need to go out of our confort zone.

Just like kissing your sister...it seems awkward at first but if you do it long enough. ..you'll get used to it.

OK there is an intelligent message in there...somewhere

This is so not funny and so damn sweet! ...You sensitive types are HAWT!...I know that feeling, it happens to me when I'm really into someone I'm talking to for the first time ...Trust me, it's a good thing sweet pea....Means you care...