After rehearsals with the band, I been talking with my ex for an hour .. and dang, was that good! No lovy feelings, nothing sexual ... but just so good to talk to someone who understands me. And it makes me wonder why I never seem to be able to even get a date that is remotely interesting...
Ex is artistic (drummer, and a bloody good one at that), I am artistic... so he gets my drives, needs, feelings and emotions as an artist and I his, because they're basically the same for any artist.
He's not into the lovy dovey romance BS, neither am I, we had a good laugh about 50 Shades, talked about the novel I'm writing and so on and so forth.
And don't get me wrong, I don't love him, I don't want him either, the grief I went through with that man! But there's the bits that did work out, and it is just such an enormous relief to talk to someone who's like-minded!
Maybe I should find myself an artists dating-site. And not sure I need a fellow-artist for a partner, but at the very least someone who understands and appreciates the mindset of an artist. And has a kinky streak as well
What I usually come across is boring f@rts with a 9 to 5 job & slouching-on-the-settee-at-night type. I need someone that stimulates my brain ... if he doesn't, I'm bound to get bored within 2 months..
And the ones that match intellectually are either too soft, I'll walk all over them, or are the 'business guy' type with office jobs. Not my kind of intelligent or man, doesn't ring my bell.
But a weird experience ... Anyone else had similar experiences with his/her ex? That it just feels good to talk to him / her on a level you haven't experienced with anyone else (yet), without any feelings of wanting them back?
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