I am thinking its amazing when you meet someone and everything you are sharing and talking about, you are finding you have a majority of the same likes and dislikes. Life is funny that way , whether a friend or a basis for more, sharing and communication is the best high in life, finding someone that WANTS to share is even better. you never know what tomorrow will bring but you do have a say if you try hard enough to make that tomorrow sing for you.
I am a very open, honest, and i think communication really is the key. Have to let the other be who they are, that is who you fell in love with, when the rules start getting made to follow and one is not sharing but being secretive, and the little things are what is being fought over, step back and accept that person for who they are,LET THOSE LITTLE THINGS GO, u will be amazed when you feel irritated, it takes you to change that feeling and when you throw it away it does not come between you and you are happier together for it. Ask yourself when you are angry, is this really worth the anger and fighting that will occur? If one closes off and cant share in dreams, fantasy, and each other you are doomed, it takes two.
I am a pisces and def a dreamer and now at my age i have the time and the desire to share those dreams with another. I love hard and long and i make so many mistakes but i keep trying, not giving up until i see there is no more i can do or the other is just not going to listen, accept and forgive. I am not rich and i have a challenging life but when there is someone to lean on it gives you the strength and courage to tackle life. I have deep feelings and emotions and love to share them either by talking or writing, i think it is important to keep understanding the other even if you dont agree. I am not a great beauty but i dont care cause i feel my beauty comes from the inside. Always i mean always try to keep the humor and try to make the other smile. Sometimes at some point you do have to make that choice to walk away even with a heavy heart. To have another who wants the same thing and especially if it gets tough between you, you stick with each other and push the hurt away and talk, really talk,when i say something i mean it, not just words but it is how i feel and would like to be believed. remember the reasons you sparked together and work at it and never run. It doesnt happen very much that two people have that spark and to keep it takes alot of work but the rewards in the end is a deeper love understanding and respect for each other. When you walk away from something that might be tough but worth the work you dont realize until too late how good you really have it and it will be one of the biggest losses in your life, problem is too many people are walking instead of working it together, listening to other people instead of each other and to me those people will never feel the fullfillment of real love cause they dont give it a chance and have to keep starting at the beginning. I do laugh at that because we will ALWAYS come to a day where you dont see eye to eye on everything . We are all different and therefore have differences. It is alot of work and fights and disagreements to get Love on a higher plane. It takes so much dedication and commitment from both. Always if you get to that point with another where you are fighting alot and now its time for your hard choice to stay or walk, look deep into yourself and ask yourself, since i have put so much time and effort into this, why have i? if your answer is because you really can accept your other even though there are things you dont like about each other it is time to step back, get rid of that anger, and try in a different way to talk and share and get that spark back together. Never hold against the other the anger or if they have made a mistake, that also will doom you. To me its worth all the work and pain to get to that higher plane as long as you have someone with that same drive to get there with you.
I am starting a new chapter in my life and i hope to find the same kind of drive in someone for each other to make that walk together, in the good as well as the bad and if for any reason i falter on this walk that my other will pick me up and carry me and not walk another path when its hard. I am willing to start that walk again, although i will start slow but im glad the man upstairs have opened my eyes to accept another to start that walk with. I will never stop trying and fall that is not in me no matter how hard life gets. At this point, who knows what will happen but from each i have walked with i have learned something from that will make my final walk and my soulmate that much more intense.
I love life and people and even if i have met people that are not so good there is still a reason you have met and always something to learn. So cherish everybody that has crossed your path and really listen and learn and instead of getting angry ask yourself what did they just give me that i can take from them to keep in my heart and on my journey and keep walking with your head held high and the love in your heart. I think if you do this the journey will always end in happiness and fullfillment. Remember the only thing that can make it work or doom is both of you. nothing or no one else can do that, only the two people that fell in love can make it or break it.
last but not least remember you have to kiss alot of toads before you get to your prince. lol