Real ladies are hard to find:

As I carry on reading that statement, again and again, a question originates in my mind..and that is: 'For whom' are real ladies, hard to find? Evidently, one would answer that as: 'For REAL men'..

Immediately, the very next query that 'strikes' me is: 'Are REAL men 'easy' to find?' And what exactly 'defines' a 'real' man/woman? And most important of all, 'WHO decides whether a man/woman is REAL or not?'

^ Hence the reason why I created this topic. :-)

Wish I was able to 'extend' a 'hand-shake' smiley as a 'token of appreciation' (for having created this particular thread)...

How about a thumbs up? -->

Accepted & Appreciated!

Good answer I like thrifting also I get all my clothing from there I'm a single parent three kids lol and you do what you have to to make ends meet

Real men... real woman.. real ly redundant topic

same applies to men here

Well, It depends on what you define as real. If you are talking about the scammers that are here all the time, Yes, they are real. But the pictures they hide behind are not. As far as real people who are here looking for a connection, they are real. The ones that are here not looking for romance. They just like hanging out here shooting the bull on these forums, they are real. It just really depends on what you are looking for.

Some of us women are probably being extra careful and extra picky. There are so many scammers on here, men and women. Sometimes you can never be too careful.