Topic: Why Are You A Jerk?
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Beachfarmer

Mon 07/27/15 09:35 PM

What is it about you that upsets people?

What power do you have that makes people want to punch you in the throat?

I have this thing when I argue, I call "holding up a mirror"......It sounds more like "mocking". NOT VERY ENDEARING!!!!.....have lost various relationships to this.

What is it about you, that you think pisses people off?
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Hightrek

Mon 07/27/15 09:48 PM

I love that whole thing about "not judging".

If you call some one out for being a jerk.......

aren't you being a judgmental jerk yourself?
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Beachfarmer

Mon 07/27/15 09:53 PM

No more than someone posing esoteric questions to make themselves look intelligent on inane chatrooms.....ya big poo poo head Karl!laugh
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IamwhoIam1

Mon 07/27/15 10:10 PM

what think What is happening on this thread?

I am a sweetie pie. Everyone loves me. Jerks can go... explode
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panchovanilla

Mon 07/27/15 10:18 PM

Well, Mr. BEACH.
If I want to annoy a woman,
I glue her toilet seat up.
If I want to annoy a guy,
I glue his woman's toilet up.
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Ladywind7

Mon 07/27/15 10:20 PM

I refuse to argue unless it is within certain respectful boundaries. I will walk away or hang up the phone.
That seriously annoys people.
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SitkaRains

Mon 07/27/15 10:22 PM


Well, Mr. BEACH.
If I want to annoy a woman,
I glue her toilet seat up.
If I want to annoy a guy,
I glue his woman's toilet up.


Only once...grumble
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panchovanilla

Mon 07/27/15 10:23 PM



Well, Mr. BEACH.
If I want to annoy a woman,
I glue her toilet seat up.
If I want to annoy a guy,
I glue his woman's toilet up.


Only once...grumble

I'm not skeered:tongue:
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TMommy

Tue 07/28/15 04:49 AM

what is it about me that upsets people? heheheeee

well it might be this rant mad explode


oh I mean which one of you has been talking grumble bigsmile
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eric22t

Tue 07/28/15 04:55 AM




Well, Mr. BEACH.
If I want to annoy a woman,
I glue her toilet seat up.
If I want to annoy a guy,
I glue his woman's toilet up.


Only once...grumble

I'm not skeered:tongue:



you should be pancho. you should be:tongue:
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joethebricky

Tue 07/28/15 05:41 AM

I leave the toilet seat up.
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OrchidBlack

Tue 07/28/15 05:53 AM


What is it about you that upsets people?

What power do you have that makes people want to punch you in the throat?

I have this thing when I argue, I call "holding up a mirror"......It sounds more like "mocking". NOT VERY ENDEARING!!!!.....have lost various relationships to this.

What is it about you, that you think pisses people off?


Do you not think that's almost inviting an argument to develop? I am not sure why we do this to people we love. If we stopped and thought about, for example, how we treat and talk to our best friends, and then do a comparison; it is mind boggling, the poop we say in our relationships, to people we presumably care for. Maybe that's the answer...I dunno, I'm obviously single and have no clue, but the definite here is, I am not looking for arguments and I am too old to be stroppy for days, over a toilet seat...
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no1phD

Tue 07/28/15 05:53 AM

I'm a lovable jerk..happy :angel:
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IamwhoIam1

Tue 07/28/15 05:56 AM

explode
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RoamingOrator

Tue 07/28/15 05:58 AM

Easy question. It's the sarcasm, the never and unending sarcasm. happy
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panchovanilla

Tue 07/28/15 06:03 AM





Well, Mr. BEACH.
If I want to annoy a woman,
I glue her toilet seat up.
If I want to annoy a guy,
I glue his woman's toilet up.


Only once...grumble

I'm not skeered:tongue:



you should be pancho. you should be:tongue:

I am now.
Woman + 5 pounds of fudge = scared

rofl
Edited by panchovanilla on Tue 07/28/15 06:04 AM
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IamwhoIam1

Tue 07/28/15 06:05 AM

What does a woman have to do around here to get some homemade fudge, Eric???
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SitkaRains

Tue 07/28/15 07:50 AM






Well, Mr. BEACH.
If I want to annoy a woman,
I glue her toilet seat up.
If I want to annoy a guy,
I glue his woman's toilet up.


Only once...grumble

I'm not skeered:tongue:



you should be pancho. you should be:tongue:

I am now.
Woman + 5 pounds of fudge = scared

rofl


Hey.... I resemble this remark...laugh


Sometimes I don't have to do anything but Breathe...
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kc0003

Tue 07/28/15 08:14 AM

you mean aside from actually being a jerk?...

apparently it's my lack of need/desire to participate in 24hr. 7 days a week contact with others.

text, social media, messaging platforms...ect. can all be useful tools however, not all of us require constant contact.
Edited by kc0003 on Tue 07/28/15 08:15 AM
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Tue 07/28/15 08:38 AM

Oh dear ... what an awkward question... had to think about that for a bit.

I think for me it's the typical Taurus ability to be blunt... the "I don't beat around the bush" thing.
I must say I have learnt to knock it on the head, well, most of the time, as it sometimes did work against me.
And as you get older ... you get wiser and learn how to say things, or not.

My daughter, also Taurus, is worse than I've ever been. (I am also very shy, totally contradictory to the bluntness, courtesy of being bullied in the past) I hope she learns to dim it a bit with time :tongue: