Thanx for your confidence in me Cat , but no. I know my boundaries

oh. in that case it would take a whole lot less for my secret to be out in the open

set 'em up bartender

Oh my it would be hard but I will remain strong.
Such pretty colours

There are so many interesting gentlemen in the forums (and fascinating ladies).

Sitka is a great example that an LDR can work. Always keep my fingers crossed for them.

Secret crushes are fun and make me smile!

The only real boundaries you have are those you set for yourself...

mine has a great smile lovely eyes she likes bdsm with words lolzz literary words fellas ..she is amazing

Yes, they ARE MY boundaries....I set them to help ME not get hurt. I understand it.

My old Mingle crush was a lovely lady that posted interesting topics and was always classy and didn't get involved in dramas.

There are some nice ladies on the forums but most are too far away, so I don't try to chat them up anymore. One maybe that I would like to take out on a nice romantic date because she needs a lover to make her feel like a sexy woman I think. But that would be our little secret too.

I have lots of crushes on fellas in the forums...a couple for looks, a couple for brains, a couple that are funny...ect...but everyone is too far away...but at least I can enjoy their thoughts here...

lol... "secret" crushes are hardly ever fun.

I crush both sides of the fence all the time.
Sometimes I think of that song 'Unanswered Prayers.'

This can be like a work environment, where you are
thrown together with other people on a daily basis.

Stuff is bound to happen.
It is like you have already had the first drink.

With the internet you are rather safe from that.
You can afford to be a little friendlier.

But I am not one to give up names:-)

sooo Soufie, may i get you another drink ?

hahahaha I don't drink so that would be 2 too many.
But thanks for the offer sailor :-)

well now, i'm pretty sure that revealing a 'secret crush' defeats the purpose, no?

keeping an open crush ruins the secret

keeping an open crush lets the carbonation escape.

try some of this first

and invites ants