Topic: the man I marry will have to be..
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Ladywind7

Mon 10/05/15 02:39 PM


big difference between that and touched her shoulder or arm to get her attention.


a stronger word might have been in order.


that being said. i hope there were consequences to his action and she is ok

There was more than one and what you just saw on the video is close. It was a sexual violation.
No, no consequences, she just came home, did not tell me, because she knew I would go straight down there with the police.

She, like many females, did not want the drama.
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eric22t

Mon 10/05/15 02:44 PM

flowerforyou strength courage and wisdom on its way
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Ladywind7

Mon 10/05/15 02:52 PM

flowerforyou
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no1phD

Mon 10/05/15 03:03 PM

. I'm going with... loyal like a dog!..:angel:
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Mon 10/05/15 03:10 PM




so is it official crystal? are you coming to visit?


Well, not official as in I got a ticket. But my daughter and hubby are looking into it.
No dates yet, as it depends on my girl's school stuff, as there's not much point of me going over there if she has to go to school a lot. Hopefully it'll be somewhere during spring, which was the original plan.
Looking forward to going over there, not looking forward to the flight though ... Used to do 18 hr flights in the past (when I lived in Jakarta), but I ain't really keen on flying no more.

But yes, the plan is definite, always was. So unless something really weird happens ... I will set foot on American soil somewhere in 2016 :tongue:

I won't be going to Texas though... was just a joke. As they are paying for everything, I can't expect them to fly me around domestically as well, lol. So it'll be in and around the area they live in.



well give us some warning. maybe we can pull off a stateside meet and greetglasses

Will do! It'll probably be all I talk about once we got a date set etc. so there's no chance of you missing it, haha. And yeah, would be nice :)
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no1phD

Mon 10/05/15 03:31 PM

Well all I can say to this topic is.. the man I marry ..better be freaking loaded... because I'm not performing in the bedroom for bubblegum and Mars bars... if I have to.. do a forever after till death do us part speech..laugh laugh :wink: noway
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chronicliar75

Tue 10/06/15 05:38 AM


should keep me entertained while under my hood



^^^^^ nyahahaha one can only hope
but very tempted to make it a requirementlaugh

gee..
this is funbigsmile

the man I will have to marry
wouldn't mind if I am not a chef.
I do not have the gift,
I'm willing to buy a take out for both of us
with my own moneylaugh

the man I will have to marry
wouldn't mind loud music now & then.

the man I will have to marry
should know how to limit himself
on alcohol intake.
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Tue 10/06/15 11:22 AM



should keep me entertained while under my hood



^^^^^ nyahahaha one can only hope
but very tempted to make it a requirementlaugh

gee..
this is funbigsmile

the man I will have to marry
wouldn't mind if I am not a chef.
I do not have the gift,
I'm willing to buy a take out for both of us
with my own moneylaugh

the man I will have to marry
wouldn't mind loud music now & then.

the man I will have to marry
should know how to limit himself
on alcohol intake.

I'm almost inclined to ask: What if you want to marry him and don't have to? Would that make a difference? :angel:

If I have to marry a man, I won't cook for him either, lol. And I will sure as he|| play loud music, and if he's boozing a lot, I will throw lots of wobblers. Serious ones at that tongue2
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TMommy

Tue 10/06/15 11:26 AM

ya know this reminds me of the wise words my mother once said to me...


" why ya gotta marry him anyhow? can't ya just shack up? " bigsmile
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Tue 10/06/15 11:43 AM


ya know this reminds me of the wise words my mother once said to me...


" why ya gotta marry him anyhow? can't ya just shack up? " bigsmile

Wise words indeed ...
Thing for me is, that I do wish to get married if I'm with the right guy.
And I know in the past we all thought we were with the right guy (woman), but looking back ... what the heck did we really know back then? laugh

A true wise one realises they know nothing ... yet I do know I know a helluva lot more than I did 25 yrs ago when I said "I do".
* I would've been married 25 yrs? noway Holy crap! I missed out on a party there! Oh he||, now every weekend can be a party laugh *
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TMommy

Tue 10/06/15 12:44 PM



ya know this reminds me of the wise words my mother once said to me...


" why ya gotta marry him anyhow? can't ya just shack up? " bigsmile

Wise words indeed ...
Thing for me is, that I do wish to get married if I'm with the right guy.
And I know in the past we all thought we were with the right guy (woman), but looking back ... what the heck did we really know back then? laugh

A true wise one realises they know nothing ... yet I do know I know a helluva lot more than I did 25 yrs ago when I said "I do".
* I would've been married 25 yrs? noway Holy crap! I missed out on a party there! Oh he||, now every weekend can be a party laugh *
yep me too. 2016 would have been our 25th happy
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Tue 10/06/15 01:25 PM




ya know this reminds me of the wise words my mother once said to me...


" why ya gotta marry him anyhow? can't ya just shack up? " bigsmile

Wise words indeed ...
Thing for me is, that I do wish to get married if I'm with the right guy.
And I know in the past we all thought we were with the right guy (woman), but looking back ... what the heck did we really know back then? laugh

A true wise one realises they know nothing ... yet I do know I know a helluva lot more than I did 25 yrs ago when I said "I do".
* I would've been married 25 yrs? noway Holy crap! I missed out on a party there! Oh he||, now every weekend can be a party laugh *
yep me too. 2016 would have been our 25th happy

You can still make the party if you get back together and pretend nothing ever happened! LOL
laugh
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TMommy

Tue 10/06/15 01:27 PM





ya know this reminds me of the wise words my mother once said to me...


" why ya gotta marry him anyhow? can't ya just shack up? " bigsmile

Wise words indeed ...
Thing for me is, that I do wish to get married if I'm with the right guy.
And I know in the past we all thought we were with the right guy (woman), but looking back ... what the heck did we really know back then? laugh

A true wise one realises they know nothing ... yet I do know I know a helluva lot more than I did 25 yrs ago when I said "I do".
* I would've been married 25 yrs? noway Holy crap! I missed out on a party there! Oh he||, now every weekend can be a party laugh *
yep me too. 2016 would have been our 25th happy

You can still make the party if you get back together and pretend nothing ever happened! LOL
laugh
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Tue 10/06/15 02:22 PM






ya know this reminds me of the wise words my mother once said to me...


" why ya gotta marry him anyhow? can't ya just shack up? " bigsmile

Wise words indeed ...
Thing for me is, that I do wish to get married if I'm with the right guy.
And I know in the past we all thought we were with the right guy (woman), but looking back ... what the heck did we really know back then? laugh

A true wise one realises they know nothing ... yet I do know I know a helluva lot more than I did 25 yrs ago when I said "I do".
* I would've been married 25 yrs? noway Holy crap! I missed out on a party there! Oh he||, now every weekend can be a party laugh *
yep me too. 2016 would have been our 25th happy

You can still make the party if you get back together and pretend nothing ever happened! LOL
laugh


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chronicliar75

Thu 10/08/15 02:35 AM


I'm almost inclined to ask: What if you want to marry him and don't have to? Would that make a difference? :angel:


^^^^^^Nice one Ma'am:)
It makes me ponder.

But -
If I will ever get a chance to live with a man-
I really want to get married to him first hahaha
I just cannot do it halfway:smile:

I actually want to cook for my man,
but I am not that good.
I am willing to do all the household chores
except planning the meal every daylaugh

I am a heavy metal fan, and I may end up
with a man who does not appreciates it,
I would like to marry someone who at least
will allow me to listen to it
and not make me give it up.

I have childhood issues with alcohol, whiskey
in particular,
took me most of my adult life to
overcome that fear of alcohol.
It is very important for me
to marry someone, who knows
how to control himself in
alcohol intake.