If you have/had a hero in your real life, who is he/she?
And why he/she is a hero?

I have had to think long about this one. I think this is a typical reply, but I have to say my grandmother. Though she became an alcoholic later in life she had it hard when she was younger. She had 9 children and lost her husband young. She had to work hard to raise them herself.

No one. You have different role models in different stages of life...
Zorro used to be my hero, lol.
I look up to my dad. And partners too, until the relationship goes sour.

my mom, she was the strongest
woman I know

Was someone in my high school days that stepped up and became something of the brother I really needed.

Totally agree with CrystalFairy....depends on the stage of life and it can change as you change.

One of my hero's in life was my uncle who stepped in when my parents divorced to be a source of support for me through school and raising my brothers. He also stepped up when my father died and became my right hand man when I had to run the business and the family trust. He was my eyes and ears that kept things running when I had to work my full-time job.

My grandma when I was real young although she died when I was 8, I remember her keeping the family close and always having time to spend with us grand kids.

A certain male friend. He lives just around the corner from me. He helped me to rebuild my life. You can't expect to see any final result or reward, without getting help first. He just happened to be there, at the worst time in my life. I will never have enough to say about what he does for me. It isn't a typical friendship. It's like a special chemistry between us. We compliment each others personalities.

she got 9 childrens,,, and her husband died YOUNG?

It has to be Adam Growe from the TV show cash cab. I see him give thousdands of dollars away and not once did a cheap *** winner give hime so much as a dollar for a tip. I would have lost it on one of them by now! lol Just kidding of course.