Is he serious?
Are you?
Or are you just sitting around waiting for him to do everything?
He promise to visit me but he fails not only once but twice...
Why don't you visit him?
Or have you?
Is he promising to visit you at a specific time and not showing up?
Or is he promising to visit you sometime or generally and then things come up?
And is he actually promising? Or are you just interpreting what he says as a promise?
And how far away is he?
Is he in another country?
Or across town?
And how long have you two been whatevering, talking, dating, emailing?
And why are you posting this to a dating site forum?
Did you talk to him about it?