you know as well as I do that most of it is like that

a smile or a wave to bump a thread and keep it active

no offense to the OP

but most of these are predictible

when the OP responds to each and every post

almost like..they are mandated to do it

like it's a formula to follow

I'm not talking about keeping a thread going....I'm talking about the non confrontational back and forth that goes on and is expected the be the "norm"

"The sky is blue"

"No it's green"

Yea, you're right! Let's hug!"

"Hugs!"

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And I only bring it up because some wanna bltch abt sections I post in....political. I wouldn't bltch about those other sections otherwise.
I'd just remove them from my forum list.


Lost me here but I'm multi-tasking so it's probably my my fault

Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others?

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Hell to the yes!

Clicks are very important though!

Without clicks we would be without many things

I click with everyone click click click click and if we don't click I delete delete delete delete delete..lol

Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others?

hehe...Sally Field oscar speech

Seak .. I think it is nice to acknowledge posts ... You cannot please everyone .. Just do your thing .. Your grandmother taught you well

Yes on both questions. AS far as mingle without a doubt there is a click and that's ok but the problem with some( as in life as well) is they get a superior attitude and do not want to include people who are new because they are worried of losing their standing in the group,I see this a defense mechanism and it tells me all I want to know about that person.You Seakolony do not fall into that category your willingness to chat with newcomers is to be admired and there are a few others here who are very social to newcomers you folks are what life is about, good conversation with confidence.

hehe...Sally Field oscar speech

I agree. I tend to do the same if I am asking for advise because I feel that it acknowledges that I appreciate the feedback and that I am reading it.

Are there clicks here? Maybe, but I see it more as people who have been here in the forums longer, have gotten to know each other and acknowledge each other. I don't see anything wrong with that and I am sure I will be one of those people after I have been here longer and gotten to know people better. I don't see it as a click though. But I guess to some people who are new it may seem that way.

the politics section especially was pretty cut throat :

Veterans of Mingle (like me) will remember a time when this forum had a ton of people. I think a few cliques formed back then, and I did here of some "internet drama".....which makes no sense.