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Sponging off other's? Excuse me but some happen to know what they want like me. I was a sugar mama and they guy sponged off of me for years. Personally I do work and support myself even though I'm not rich I just prefer younger. To have someone else that works as well to help contribute if living with me is okay. I'm not "sponging" as you put it. I come from the old school where the male supports his girl and pay's for dinner and a movie. How is that "sponging"?So before you judge other's in here get your facts straight.

Then you wonder why men run for the hills?

If they suggest it that's fine but I don't expect it.

Men also have enough on their plate.
It's not easy for them to ask someone out. Thinking they might get rejected.
Now a few women expect them to pay for everything?
Oh hell nooooo give them a break.

I strongly believe in equal sharing.

Oh man!! I do believe I am going to be moving to Kiwi land as soon as my cash runs out and the woman here have drained me of all worldly goods....just saying..

sugar gives me heart burn.I gather women looking for their sugar daddy will give me lots of heart burn. not interested!

You always make me smile.

Personally, I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself financially and otherwise. It would be great to find the right man who is also a gentleman and pays the way BECAUSE he is a gentleman and that's how he was raised and it pleases him. As far as me supporting a man? That will never happen. That is a deal breaker with me. I will share expenses with a man but I will not support him as his sugar mamma. Not gonna happen!!

Thats good to know, now stop complaining that I do nothing for you....

Lol yes boss

Boss???? not good not good


Sugar babe.....we are the sharing kind....so I am led to believe....

Oh sorry

Lol you are so right

OMG...if you are agreeing with me, we both must be wrong....

yes advorcedone sharing is good

Sharing could not be that great, otherwise I am pretty sure, you would have shared a picture by now...hmmmmm!!!

<--- me at this thread

Well at least somebody is laughing....or is that the sugar high, just kicking in????

I actually experienced this first hand, but I wasn't aware of it initially. Where I live, I'm a rare thing...I own my home, I have a car, a motorcycle and a job. "Users" have led me off the straight and narrow twice, but I'm getting better now at sorting them out.

Sorry to edit your statement, but there's only part of it I want to comment on.

I was raised the same way, if you ask a lady out, you're expected to open doors, pull out seats and pay for it at the end of the evening. It's manners, pure and simple.

As for dating younger, I'm open to it as well, but not too much younger. When I'm not adulting hard, I'm a big kid, and having someone who can enjoy it with me is an awesome thing.

Haha! I've never been a sugar baby or sugar momma or had a sugar daddy. I wouldn't know the feels