Post here if you want to chat, any topic.

Why are members so hesitant to start a conversation ? Most of them are such whose identity is a secret as they create fake identity. First of all they put in all their efforts to create such identity because they wanna be here & then they refrain from any conversations. I have experience of starting conversation with people but they refrian from even a small reply. Sometimes I wonder if they are receiving any messages at all ??

I request people to please share their experiences .... Hope somebody replies !!

The thing is, and I hope you get this or that Mingle doesn't delete it because they do is that new members are told in the ad this is a FREE site; chat, mingle, meet, fall in love!!!!!!!
But when you start messaging people etc, then suddenly you only have access IF YOU UPGRADE...
^&%^%#$%@$$%#@
I am a pretty laidback guy, but frankly, false advertising is false advertising.
Hope you manage to find someone decent.

Just gotta say, I've never been prompted to upgrade, much less kept from messaging until I did.

Why questioning others identity here when you yourself don't even have a profile pic here... Just asking... If ever you decided to finally put one and you approach members here and still no response... Then it is simply that you're not their type

Interesting profile.

Welcome to mingle.

I have sent private messages to plenty of people without having to pay for an upgrade.

Interesting the direction this post went. If I can add my two senses, one, if there is no picture or profile, I do not go forward. Two, when it comes to who click yes on you, I do not bother. All it takes is to message, no string attached. My experience, some times I chat with cool people, other times no so cool and last there are times when is no one to chat. Last, rejection, if people can not or do not know how to deal with it, they are going to have difficult time here. It takes two to have a conversation and experience to weed out the land.

, I fogot to cheer.

To my knowledge this is the only truly free site - other than *OKC or POF*

I have not been forced to upgrade to message people and the forums are a nice perk not many sites offer.

Wanna get hounded for money, try Zoosk- free to sign up and that is it!