None, and I don't expect any.
First of all, women have to reply to opening messages. They don't. I suspect that for a man, you must have a six figure income. Then, have an admirable career, with some fancy job title. Be able to be instantly romantic-constantly. Have the wit of some world class author. Be very entertaining, and ready to fly off to any corner of the globe. On your nickle. Be of perfect health, and not care what the woman looks like.
Or, in other words, perfect.
I'm all of none of those, so I expect nothing.
That's so sad..
I don't know what kind of women you are used to dealing with...but even when I was younger (in my 20's) and ~all that~ AND a biscuit...I didn't look for a 6-figure income, a hot body (I think gym rats and self-obsessed dudes are a bore), fancy job title, nor did i ever have the desire to travel the globe.
I *do* look for wit, intelligence, common interests/ goals/ world view...a lover of nature and animals, and compassion for those less well off and the marginalized.
If a guy has his own place, car, and can pay his bills on time and put some aside for an emergency, and maybe a vacation once a year..that suits me just fine.
I have my own money...I don't need his.
Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
on Sat 08/25/18 09:03 PM