Love is not hard, as someone else noted. Mutual love, or making love last is hard. We can only control how we feel, not how others feel. It is disappointing when what we feel does not match how another does.
I think it is hard also because of the different definitions two might have on what love is also.
If you are a person who thinks of love from the perspective of what the other person does for you (and how it makes you feel), it is harder because, as I said, we cannot control others actions or feelings. If you have two people with this definition of love, it is harder to make it last.
If you are a person who thinks of love from the perspective of what you want to do for the other (and how it MIGHT make them feel), it is a little simpler because it is only dependent on the things you do which are things you have control over. If you have two people with this definition of love, I think it makes it a bit easier to make it last.
If you have two people each with different definition of love, it is probably hardest to make it last.
I think most people think of love from the first perspective, unfortunately. JMHO
Edited by
msharmony
on Sun 04/19/20 07:27 AM