Topic: 40 year old mom seeking love
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Leo1982

Sun 08/23/20 04:50 AM

Leaving an unhappy marriage. He is dismissive of my entire existence. He lacks all compassion and treats me poorly. Im not deserving of it. Its hard to live in a loveless relationship. My challenge is my kids. Will anyone want to marry me again and accept my kids?
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ivegotthegirth

Sun 08/23/20 05:27 AM

I hate using cliches but there is someone for everyone. If you're going to use this site to maybe look you'll need to do some serious work on your profile.
Welcome here and good luck. winking

I'm sure it seems bleak for you now but have faith in KARMA and the fact there are good men out there.
Edited by ivegotthegirth on Sun 08/23/20 05:36 AM
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yukaAfia

Fri 09/04/20 06:27 PM

You have to put your photos first so that we know who is talking to
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john

Fri 09/04/20 06:52 PM

I have the same problem with my wife. Your gorgeous and you sound smart. Believe in yourself.
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krishanaS

Sat 09/05/20 12:42 AM

SO DEAR

WHERE U FRM DEAR.
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Ronnie

Sat 09/05/20 01:24 AM

are you from ?
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stephen68

Sat 09/05/20 01:28 AM

yes you will
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SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž

Sun 09/06/20 09:19 AM

So you'd consider staying in a loveless marriage because you think no one will want to marry you again?
Maybe get your priorities straight: what's more important... your and your children's well-being or another man wanting to marry you?
Your own happiness AND your kids should always be nr one. Everything else is less important.

If you want to go through with that then focus on that right now, getting divorced, finding your feet, being there for your kids. When that's all going well at some point and you feel ready, then you go on a dating site.
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bob

Sun 09/06/20 07:00 PM

yes i am sure you can find someone nice
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bobtail76

Sat 09/19/20 05:00 PM

Statistics say that the likelihood of divorce is higher than your first marriage - if you do find that someone
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EmpressY

Sat 09/19/20 06:28 PM

That’s true Karma is Real. And believe i God.
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Rahul

Wed 09/23/20 02:58 AM

Hi afcorc
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Subru

Tue 10/20/20 07:08 PM

Yes
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Blondey111

Tue 10/20/20 08:22 PM

Hello Leo ...waving It is normal to fret about future relationships as a single parent .. many find love again after divorce and blended families are now very common . Work on healing your self esteem and have supports in place (rather tha focusing on a potential new partner). Wish you and your children a happy future x
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Rock

Wed 10/21/20 03:25 AM


Leaving an unhappy marriage. He is dismissive of my entire existence. He lacks all compassion and treats me poorly. Im not deserving of it. Its hard to live in a loveless relationship. My challenge is my kids. Will anyone want to marry me again and accept my kids?


You're not likely to find anyone online,
with your completely empty profile.

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Josephine

Mon 11/09/20 01:45 AM

Believe in yourself! In God's perfect time!
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Tom4Uhere

Mon 11/09/20 07:14 AM


Leaving an unhappy marriage. He is dismissive of my entire existence. He lacks all compassion and treats me poorly. Im not deserving of it. Its hard to live in a loveless relationship. My challenge is my kids. Will anyone want to marry me again and accept my kids?

Sometimes marriage takes work. It takes two to make a marriage and two to break a marriage.
You're unhappy right now. So you decide to give up on him?
Why did you get married and have kids in the first place?
Strike that, You did.
Why are you using a dating site while you are married?
People on dating sites are not marriage councilors. Plus you gave way too little information on your situation.

I'm gunna say NO.
No decent man will invest himself in someone who walks away from their marriage for such trivial reasons. Putting your kids future at risk.
Oh, you will find plenty of men who will treat you like crap and get some sex but you already have a man who provides for his family.

Perhaps you should seek marriage counseling and talk with you husband about this instead of running away. Its a high probability you loved each other at one point enough to get married and have kids.

Your kids need a stable environment.
Believe it or not, that's both of your responsibility.
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Ray

Thu 11/12/20 07:10 PM

The answer is yes.Someone will want to marry you and accept your kids. Life is too short and we all need to be loved. Good luck.
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lhanie

Thu 11/12/20 09:00 PM

who knows ur meant tobe having d same problems
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lhanie

Thu 11/12/20 09:05 PM

u said ut right.. problem can be solve by sit down and talk and figure out whats d main problem is if its dont work then time to let ur self free..just dont decide so quickly to get ur marriage over just bcoz ur not happy