I've heard guys say, "There's the ones you take to bed", and then "There's the ones you take home to mother".
I'm interested in seeing what the men here on Mingle say.
river... eventually I'd like option 2, but after being separated from 18 years of marriage... number 1 sounds fun... my ex wife was kinda prudish... last two years has been a dead bedroom. my love language is touch, so I can't be with someone who's anti touch which my wife became in past few years. I also wouldn't mind just finding a friend group or something my Identity was husband and Dad and I never really had my own social life outside my wife's network.
Exploring kinks though would be fun too... if you know any girls who are kinky and like chubby bear men let me know.