My main source of mental stimulation comes from men.
A lot of men are seeking that authentic meaning conversation and rare connection. Ask and you will seek, even friendship.
It’s rare, but does happen. Tell them real stories about you, ask them questions, make them laugh it’s a ice breaker, take a genuine interest, compliment them, talk about issues they like, make them entertain you, banter, flirt. Tell them they got that some em something. Lol and stroke their ego. Make them remember you.
Their out there… maybe in needle in a haystack here, but they are out there.
I went on another site and found it to be more welcoming. I still love Mingle and the people here, but go venture other sites.
Good luck everyone.