Feedback on my profile? Anything I should add, remove, change up a bit? did I pick the right main picture? I am open for input.
it's been a while since I did this. and all pictures are from 2023/4.
1. Be yourself, which you've obviously done. I'm sure it will attract a similar man, if there is such one out there.
2. The 50 questions thing isn't my cup of tea as it seems like an interview, right off the bat. I'd guess most men are not looking for that but again, maybe they are out there.
3. The first or 3rd picture probably sums you up best I'd guess.
Just my 2 cents.
Edited by
Mr Good Guy
on Sat 02/10/24 01:03 PM
Prompts, and I'm definitely looking for a conversationalist. The last many messages I've received fully consist of "hi" "how are you" and "how have you been" or "wow"(followed by
It's an attempt to give a guy a PROMPT to respond to, so a guy can say something intelligent.
And thank you for the feedback. I am WELL AWARE I am not everyone's cup of tea - I'm a spicy chai in a coffee world. ;)
I like it, I think you've covered all the bases and sown the seeds for various conversation topics, in the text...
Some words were big like Esoteric Gnosticism, which I had to Google in order to understand...
And I had to Google Breatharians too, which was an interesting read, but a bit much for my poor little 1 watt brain...
I think your second pic is the best one, it shows you have a nice smile, all in all it's a much more informative profile than most newbies...
Excellent work. You clearly put a lot of thought and effort into it and it looks complete. The photos are really good. The blurb is well-written. It's longer than most, but easy to read. Maybe a little white space would help, but it's still excellent.
I'd rate it 10/10. Great job!
Good luck!
This is in many ways one of the best profiles I've seen in this place. It is true you aren't for everyone, but it is clear what you're like and what you're after.
I say, well done!
Get a better profile photo. The one you chose now isn't clear enough. The thumbnail had me thinking you were a bloke. Choose a photo that leaves no doubt about your gender.
As was said, way way way too many questions!
Men aren't going to read such a huge, solid block of text.
I like reading but even I had to force myself to get through it.
Use paragraphs, helps a lot.
And instead of all those questions, why not simply say what you say here: " I'm definitely looking for a conversationalist"
That sums it up. Makes reading your profile a lot easier, better, and nicer.
I too like a man that can hold an in depth conversation, but the way you're attempting to convey that is near off-putting.
Your reason is that many send daft messages. That won't change. This is a free dating site with tons of scammers. If you want more messages of substance without the BS you should go to a paid-for dating site.
Either that, or put up with the nonsense messages, learn to ignore & delete them. A man of substance will send a decent message, provided you have a profile that invites them to. As it is you don't have that.
Most will see that solid block and leave without reading. Leaving you with the nonsense messages.
Even if some read it, they will feel the demand in your text & questions, you go too political as well (a profile isn't the place for that), and they'll leave even though they were initially interested.
Seriously, dump the questions! A profile should be reasonably short, fun, positive, light-hearted, attractive, and have paragraphs.
Also, get rid of THE CAPITALS! SCREAMING IS PAINFUL TO THE EARS AND RUDE! NO ONE LIKES IT!
I would break out your profile into paragraphs to make it easier to read. Maybe you don't need to say so much but make it a little more mysterious to prompt the user's interest and ask questions. Pictures are fine.
