Why are men on here putting on there profiles that women do not reply when message us !!! I have messaged men no replies either and been mutual like is it the site doing this i wonder . New here been here a week . Think wasted my money .

keep doing what you doing ... some guys appreciate being messaged first !
welcome to M2 !!!

When I used to post my picture, I would get lots of likes. However, I noticed that none of the likes were obtained from anybody who was also recorded as having visited my page. Of those "liking" who were actual members, I suspect that almost all were simply "batch-liking" profiles then letting the men do the work while remaining extremely choosy about which of any of the interested men might receive some further response.

Since I removed my photo, I stopped getting bothered in this way. You may also wish to check to see whether those liking you are actually visiting your page.

As for me, I would only rarely get replies to any of my plentiful messages. In those rare instances in which an actual user did reply, the tone typically varied somewhere between moderately unpleasant and overtly hostile. So, I stopped seeing much value in investing any effort in crafting a nice message. While I can't rule out sending somebody a message in the future, I also can't imagine bothering.

I am aware of that thank you .

Yes and thanks for your advice probably coming off this site not impressed recieved some disgusting messages i know it works both ways but respect costs nothing very hard for genuine people .

Hi Penny,

Not all men write negative comments about women, maybe it's just those who are impatient? Or those who do not see the benefit of investing their time in building a friendship that could become a relationship...

I note a lot of people (men & women) don't have any photos at all, but I would guess everyone needs at least one photo to see the potential chemistry we may have towards another... And other photos could be provided via DM later if one wishes, so what Corality wrote could help immensely in sorting the wheat from the chaff...

I'm not a paying member and I cannot view anyone who liked me, but I notice that some likers are blurred out and others not blurred out, so I'm guessing the blurred pics are of free members, and not blurred are the paying members, this can help none paying members in deciding whose seriously seeking a soulmate and who's simply passing time..

And since it's a free site, maybe it's worth staying at Mingle but just as a free member when your paid membership term finishes...