I beg to differ....
Unlike women, most dudes do not use immutable characteristics phase them out.
Turnoffs are usually something women can change. Their weight and their attitude are the first ones I can think of.
I would think that for me, attitude is number 1.
- Sl*ts turn us off to dating - but we'll take em home for the night
- Any chick who prides herself on being "sassy" is just telling us she's a b!tch and tryna sound cute about it
- Boss babes can pound sand. We do not want combat when we get home
Sounds o me like you don't have any self esteem and get threatened by a woman who isn't submissive and in the kitchen