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Topic: sex on the first date
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Unknow

Thu 03/14/24 02:53 PM

Do you think this is a massive red flag or big no.
Or does it vary by date?
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motowndowntown

Thu 03/14/24 02:56 PM

Depends on how good the sex is.
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Unknow

Thu 03/14/24 03:10 PM

Depends on how good the sex is.

well what if it's with a leggy curvy blonde? :joy:
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TxsGal3333

Thu 03/14/24 03:19 PM


Depends on how good the sex is.

well what if it's with a leggy curvy blonde? :joy:



It don't matter who for most men will take it for what it is easy~~~

So unless your just out for sex it will not matter..

I'm no prude I've had my hay days but never expect more if you sleep with them the very first night..

Even tho I have had a few that lasted a few months but it was all just for fun..
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Unknow

Thu 03/14/24 03:24 PM

It don't matter who for most men will take it for what it is easy~~~

So unless your just out for sex it will not matter..

I'm no prude I've had my hay days but never expect more if you sleep with them the very first night..

Even tho I have had a few that lasted a few months but it was all just for fun..

thanks for the advice. it's just in trying to end this whole thing being taboo. sex on the first date doesn't spell doom. unless possibly you're not sexually compatible
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Rock

Thu 03/14/24 03:31 PM

Fishin' with stink bait, draws the
bottom feeders.

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Dodo_David

Fri 03/15/24 06:59 PM


Do you think this is a massive red flag or big no.
Or does it vary by date?


huh If you have to ask, then you may already have a problem.
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Larsson71

Fri 03/15/24 09:25 PM


It don't matter who for most men will take it for what it is easy~~~

So unless your just out for sex it will not matter..

I'm no prude I've had my hay days but never expect more if you sleep with them the very first night..

Even tho I have had a few that lasted a few months but it was all just for fun..

thanks for the advice. it's just in trying to end this whole thing being taboo. sex on the first date doesn't spell doom. unless possibly you're not sexually compatible
Is that picture in your profile from the Download Festival? Worked there a few times, if it is? :thumbsup::100::sunglasses::musical_note::notes:
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Unknow

Fri 03/15/24 09:54 PM

listen guys sex is great if you feel like be lay go for it and stop ********
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catinidaho

Fri 03/15/24 10:13 PM

You have to have sex every date after that. It's expected.
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dust4fun

Sat 03/16/24 08:49 PM


Do you think this is a massive red flag or big no.
Or does it vary by date?


Once again, you are 19 and dating younger guys. Not sure how things work at where you are from, but over here we have a saying "15 will get you 20", meaning that if you have sex with a 15yr old you will do 20yrs in prison. I suggest you hold off on sex til they are old enough to drive, get a job, and pay child support!
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Mr Good Guy

Sat 03/16/24 11:22 PM



Do you think this is a massive red flag or big no.
Or does it vary by date?


Once again, you are 19 and dating younger guys. Not sure how things work at where you are from, but over here we have a saying "15 will get you 20", meaning that if you have sex with a 15yr old you will do 20yrs in prison. I suggest you hold off on sex til they are old enough to drive, get a job, and pay child support!
and maybe even grow a mustache or chest hair.
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Unknow

Sun 03/17/24 12:06 AM

why are all the comments so funny 🤣
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Slim gym

Sun 03/17/24 05:20 AM

Contrary to all options , I never ever had sex on the first date . Most women , and the few I managed to get a date with , only agreed after about 6 dates .... worked out well for me .
Fast forward to today .... it's a must on the first date... ain't getting any younger yanno!!!!
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BorNotB

Tue 03/19/24 09:30 PM

if both person feel like it... why not???

i really dont mind doing whatever we feel like it and whenever we want to!!! on the 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 100 date!!!
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Mike Hammer

Tue 03/19/24 10:13 PM

Sex on the first date is what i did in the 1970's
Now I see that as non productive concerning a high quality relationship. So roll the dice as you see fit!!!
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Toodygirl5

Wed 03/20/24 02:16 PM



Do you think this is a massive red flag or big no.
Or does it vary by date?


huh If you have to ask, then you may already have a problem.



:thumbsup: I agree!
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Unknow

Wed 03/20/24 08:02 PM

People act like women don't also have needs. Maybe they are just want hat period. I say as long as it's not hurting anyone else then let the freak flag wave
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Boss

Fri 03/22/24 03:51 PM

Do you think this is a massive red flag or big no.
Or does it vary by date?

it just depends
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Boss

Fri 03/22/24 03:52 PM

it just depends on connection