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Sasha

Mon 03/18/24 07:49 PM

i joined M2 about 2 weeks ago and i admit that im a bit disappointed. i have received over 70 mail and to be honest i think over 90% of them are not totally real. I`m well into my 50s and i get messages from 20-30 years old asking to chat outside . im in IT security and something just doesnt feel right. am i wrong? what am i missing here?
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motowndowntown

Mon 03/18/24 07:55 PM

It's a free international site. You're going to get your share of nefarious "ladies" sending you all kinds of B.S.. Delete and never go "off site" with strangers.
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corptechNC

Wed 03/20/24 02:58 PM

If they ask you to chat somewhere else you can bet it's a scam, beware
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corality

Wed 03/20/24 04:12 PM


i joined M2 about 2 weeks ago and i admit that im a bit disappointed. i have received over 70 mail and to be honest i think over 90% of them are not totally real. I`m well into my 50s and i get messages from 20-30 years old asking to chat outside . im in IT security and something just doesnt feel right. am i wrong? what am i missing here?


Those bogus solicitations are inherent in posting your picture. Your profile pops up and the scammers (likely men in most cases) start sending the messages. I took down my photo, and almost all the scammers went away. But, I still get about the same number of legitimate inquiries from interested women, which is about none :)