Topic: how long do u thing someone should chat before meeting
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oldsage

Fri 03/02/07 06:23 AM

LETS SEE Lost shower my mind & heart beat racing
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babygirl13433

Fri 03/02/07 03:08 PM

that is way to soon ive been talking to this guy for about four months
he is upset with me for not meeting him yet but i dont feel like we
still know each other that well yet im starting over sure going to be
careful this time dont need to make anymore mistakes in my life
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txazdesertgirl

Fri 03/02/07 06:00 PM

3 years. if then.
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4fun06

Sat 03/03/07 10:34 PM

my average has been about 2 monthes.
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Sanna

Sun 03/04/07 02:31 PM

I definitely wouldn't meet someone right away! I have waited from 3
weeks to 6 months. Just on friendship based meetings. I myself have met
some that scared me to death. When upon meeting them they have revealed
some of their issues. One guy was 45 minutes late for our meeting. As I
was walking out of the door he came in and looked very upset. To my
great dismay he was having a major anxiety attack just because he was
meeting with me. He later told me he has major depression, has tried to
commit suicide several times and many other issues. That was enough to
change my mind for awhile about meeting people. The couple of guys that
took the longest to meet are really great friends of mine now, even
though they have girlfriends now! You can learn alot about a person when
the are on the phone, remember to listen well and take your time!
Sometimes you can figure out if they are in desparate mode! I had to
learn that the hard way!
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Chuckee

Sun 03/04/07 02:34 PM

I say the same day, if ya'll chat all day or whatever and want to meet,
DO IT!!! Thats what it's all about isn't it. I mean, whatcha waitin
for?noway
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Morena350

Sun 03/04/07 03:19 PM

yep what chuckee said, and we are not getting any younger
roflmao!!!
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horseracer

Sun 03/04/07 05:50 PM

yeah i agree meet them. but in a maul reasturant or any where thers a
lot ppl but i alys like to see them on cam and let them see me to. so no
real surprises lol cam costs only $20.
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horseracer

Sun 03/04/07 05:54 PM

spell chk plz lol
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Chuckee

Sun 03/04/07 05:57 PM

laugh whew, I was thinking you spell like you talk. lol. You know
how some people do? lmao.drinker
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horseracer

Sun 03/04/07 06:00 PM

well thanks i aaam from theee south lol ohio
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Morena350

Sun 03/04/07 06:00 PM

very funny chuckee!
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Chuckee

Sun 03/04/07 06:01 PM

drinker :wink:
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wanttachat

Sun 03/04/07 06:03 PM

When you feel comfortable enough is when you should decide to meet, I
myself would not want to feel pressured. If the guy gets all huffy
because you want to take it slow then you'll know it is not a wise
decision
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horseracer

Sun 03/04/07 06:04 PM

shes alys ben funny even in highschool lol
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BigGlenn

Sun 03/04/07 06:05 PM

Hi . I'm Glenn. Marry me!!bigsmile
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Chuckee

Sun 03/04/07 06:10 PM

Actually, I'm very shy, passive and insecure, ask anyone. Txs, Morena,
Tneal, Shadow, anyone, really, they'll tell you.:smile: drinker
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horseracer

Sun 03/04/07 06:13 PM

laughlaugh: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Morena350

Sun 03/04/07 06:14 PM

what?noway noway noway noway
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ChubbyCherubPoet

Sun 03/04/07 06:14 PM

never...stay in a cave and stick to the internet its safer that way *
OUCH Chuckee quit throwin things at me..geeze..I'm just bein my usual
smart ass self* j/k gurl lol