I think something might pop up right before the cuddle

I have a great life but every time I try a relationship they inject themselves to far, too deep and too quick into my life.

Again the difference between a cuddle buddy and booty call is a booty call really don't work for me. A cuddle buddy you care about, your exclusive with and you even like...You spend time getting to know each other first but you don't let them into you day life.

You just haven't met the right one! What if she was hella cool & just let you be you no nagging & she made you happy all the time?

Well to me that's just like a Booty call & it would not work for mE then it would be your loss! Sometimes someone can add to your LIFE

I have come to the conclusion I am not wanting a deep, meaningful long term relationship what I want is a cuddle buddy and not a booty call.

I am the kind of guy that likes/needs to have feelings for the girl I am sleeping with and having sexual relationship with, hence negating a booty call.

See I like being signal but when it comes to bed time it sucks.

A cuddle buddy is some you care about, be exclusive with but they are just there at night.

Day time lives don't really intertwine. I don't care what she does for a living, how many hours she works, how much money she has, how much she travels or to meet your kids and I don't want her meeting mine.

I don't want anybody tell me how to live my life, judging me, inflecting her insecurities on me or trying to be my mom.

Cuddle buddy is someone you respect, know and feel safe with and if you are lucky maybe even like.

A booty call has none of these qualites...

So Am I crazy, I am in some illusion and just fooling myself or is this a possibility?

That would be way cool but I have not found that or anything close.


i guess I want my cake and eat it too. However this is beneficial for both parties as she does not have to answer to a man. She lives her day life with out interference and has someone there at night....

I have a great life but every time I try a relationship they inject themselves to far, too deep and too quick into my life.

Again the difference between a cuddle buddy and booty call is a booty call really don't work for me. A cuddle buddy you care about, your exclusive with and you even like...You spend time getting to know each other first but you don't let them into you day life.

That would be way cool but I have not found that or anything close.


i guess I want my cake and eat it too. However this is beneficial for both parties as she does not have to answer to a man. She lives her day life with out interference and has someone there at night....

deff not crazy...sounds like a good idea to me

Hmmmmmmmmm a cuddle buddy???? I dont know about you but if Im lying in bed cuddling.....I think the clothes would come off eventually and all sorts of dirty bad things could happen