The authors of several tarot books I've read have suggested meditating on the question at hand before doing self readings.
They've also suggested either holding the cards during the meditation, or at least having them sitting on an altar during meditation.
The meditation should be focused on the question at hand. Some authors even suggest placing a crystal on top of the deck during the meditation. Especially a crystal that the psychic uses often for their personal energy.
Of course, these are merely suggestions and everyone has their own way of doing things.
Some people pass the deck through incense smoke. And people often use a particular incense scent for specific types of questions, (i.e. romance, finance, family matters, etc.)
There are probably as many different ways of doing it as their are practicioners.
I have absolutely no desire to do readings for other people at all. So I focus on reading books that are aimed particularly at self-readers, and on how to improve my own psychic ability.
I'm in it solely for the self-improvement aspect.
If someone asked me to do a reading, I wouldn't do one. Instead what I would do is offer to help them do a self-reading.
First, I would explain how to best phrase their question (based on what I've learned from books I've read)
Second, I would offer them to choose the deck that calls to them the most. I have quite a few tarot decks, and I would have them look through them and pick the one that says something to them. Or better yet, if they are dead serious I would ask them to purchase their own deck.
Third, I would help them pick out the best spread that would be suited to their question. I could probably offer them several spreads to choose from and I would tell them to choose which ever one calls to them.
Then I would have them suffle the cards whilst concentrating on their question.
I would have them deal out the spread.
And then I would try to help them analzye it to the best of my ability. I would do that by simply telling them what each position means, and showing them what the meanings of the cards are.
I can actually show them because I have the meanings all printed out in a 3-ring binder.
I use Joan Bunning's interpretations as a basis.
http://www.learntarot.com/cards.htm
I like them because they are quite abstract and can be quite interesting to use.
I also believe that cards can have different meanings in different contexts, so I'm not inclined to accept it when people tell me that a particular card always means the same thing. I think the context of the question, the spread, and the position within the spread can often influence what the card is trying to convey.
I'm an abstract maniac.
So in other words, I don't do readings, but owl be glad to teach someone else how to do their own readings.
I personally feel that all of this stuff (witchcraft, shamanism, divination, or whatever) is a means to get in contact with my higher self.
Therefore I am no one else's psychic.
Maybe there are other people who can be psychic for other people. But I'm only interested in becoming psychic with my own higher self.
And I would be willing to teach these same techniques to other people.
I'm not about to try to read their subconscious. That's up to them to do that.
That's where I'm coming from.
I'm a very pragmatic self-psychic.
Or at least I'm trying to learn to become one.
This fits in line with what many people teach. I just watched Deepak Chopra's lectures on "The Way of the Wizard", and in those lectures he was saying that only we can do this for ourselves.
That's not to say that other people can't help us along. But ulimately we must be the ones to make contact with our own spirit. No one else can do that for us.
So that's pretty much the stance I take thoughout my entire journey into witchcraft, shamanism, diviniation, and all the rest of it.
I don't denounce the psychics who claim to be able to do divination for other people. It's just not something I'm interested in doing for others, nor having done for me by another.
I'm on a path of self-enlightenment only.
I would say that in-line with what Deepak Chopra teaches in "The Way of the Wizard", I'm in the 'seeker' stage of development. Hoping to soon become a 'seer' (a psychic).
Maybe when I actually become a seer owl feel differently about doing divination for other people.
Until then, I'm a seeker.
A tenderfoot shaman.
There's no sense in pretending otherwise. That would just be the ego raising its head saying, "I wanna be something more than I truly am".
But I can help other people become their own tenderfoot shaman as well.
If that's what they want.