thank you.
love, money,friendship,marriage, career.

could we first start with love and then move on from there, at present love is my #1 priority as it pertains to my marriage and my feelings.

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What are your expectations for the relationship? The tower indicates the breaking apart of structures that have kept you imprisoned. It means sudden and unexpected changes have occurred and some truths have been discovered. Do you feel stuck in a rut? Is your marriage stifling you? Are you considering leaving it? I'm going to need some feedback for this reading as things are not coming in clear.

The King of wands: Has business been contributing to the relationship problems perceived? Nine of wands: Brace yourself for one last challenge.

That is all I can read. Sorry.

I was hoping that things would get better between my husband and I.

I sometimes feel as though am in this marriage for the sake of my children.
My feelings are neglected and yes I do feel stuck in a rut as you put it and I have considered leaving it but again my children are involved and do love my husband.

One last challenge?

It could be that your rut is in your mind, there may be nothing wrong in your marriage but the problem lies with being unfulfilled in other areas of growth. Communication is necessary. Decide what you want to do with your life that will make you more satisfied and fulfilled-- besides raising your children. You need something to nurture your creative side.

I guess you are right, because I believe that there is so much that I can do with my life right now but really do feel stuck. As for communication don't have much of that (not on my path). Thank you I feel much better now about my marriage.

what can you tell me about my friendships. Any bad forecast.

There should be no reason why you can't follow your career dreams while still being married, (unless they involve doing things not acceptable while being a married woman.) The communication should be with him. What have you got to loose? Perhaps he can be a help rather than a hindrance. If he is a hindrance, then you have to make a decision. It is your life. Live it the way you choose. But that is just my personal opinion. I've been divorced twice because of my attitude. And you do have a bigger thing to consider... the children. I like to be single.

I have no problems following my career dreams, he supports me there 100%.

Communicating with him is difficult. Most married couples with sit down and talk, spend time together.If we spend quality time together once a month its plenty. He spends most of his free time with his friends. This where communication is difficult.

Honestly speaking sometimes I wish I had never taken a husband. If I had the ability to see this far ahead in my life I would have surely taken a different path

Due to your experiences you see things differently and clearly and I do appreciate your unbiased wisdom.

Hi jeanniebean thanks for your readings on my lovelife.
What can you tell me about my career path. I just can't seem to make up my mind on the right job/career for me.