I am in the minority on this one, but pix with children are a turn off. I don't date men with kids, but even if I did, I don't think that is a good opener for dating. Besides, it's kind of scary to think anyone would put pix of their children on the internet. There are some scary freaks that might misuse the images.
Oh, flipping the bird in a pic is bad too. If a person can't express him or her self better -- then I pass on that one too.
I think guys vs. girls all have their profile issues. People market themselves differently. They will attract what they represent.
Melody -- happily no longer looking!
Well, people with children do date, too. And it's not like it's some sort of a stigma or anything. Children are beautiful, wonderful, bright, spirit-filled people that bring joy to life. And usually, people with children are looking for someone who is going to accept their child as well. And you can't help the actions of other people, if that is how they choose to be, than they will get theres in the end, i choose not to worry about things such as that.
That's like worrying about whether you're going to get hit by a car because you went outside today. There's a possibility, but freaking yourself out over it isn't going to solve anything.
And people probably put pics up because they're proud of their kids. :)
Don't see flipping the bird as a bad thing either. Just because you use a hand expression that's vulgar, doesn't mean that you're a stupid person. That's an unfair judgement based on a picture.
I curse like a sailor and have flipped the bird in many pics...
I've been asked if I have tourettes before actually, lol. But, I am by no means stupid or unable to communicate. :P
And yes, I agree, people will attract what they represent.
That being said, I appreciate your honesty, although I don't agree with you on most points.