Ruth wrote:
Thank you and you're right. I think my problem originally was that I was so excited about what I had found that I wanted to share it with everyone. For years I would tell people about this "thing" I had found and their reactions were not always pleasant. Even from people in the Pagan community. "You're not doing it right" was often heard.
I have learned and am still learning to just keep it to myself and "ignore the naysayers".
Thank you and you're right. I think my problem originally was that I was so excited about what I had found that I wanted to share it with everyone. For years I would tell people about this "thing" I had found and their reactions were not always pleasant. Even from people in the Pagan community. "You're not doing it right" was often heard.
I have learned and am still learning to just keep it to myself and "ignore the naysayers".

Well that's a normal desire that we all have. I would love to share the way I do things with everyone else on the planet as well. But not everyone is interested in doing things "my way".

That's just the cold hard facts of life.
However, I have come to realize that this is true of everyone. I'm as excited about my elaborate system of circle casting, and with the idea of the four Faery cities, and with my original Labyrinth Way garden path (even though I never finished the web site, I still use the Labyrinth way in my shamanic journeys and I even have many statues and figurines that I use indoors during the winter and out in my actual gardens in the summer.
I'm real excited about all of it and would love to share it with other people.
But this is the same thing that everyone does with their spiritual archetypes. Whether it's a Moon Goddess, a Faery Realm, or a personal relationship with Jesus, it's all the same thing ultimately.
In fact, I fully understand and appreciate many Christians who are all excited about having 'found' Jesus. Because their enthusiasm is based on the same excitement of having found a means of communique with a divine consciousness. The only problem with the Jesus thing, is that it far too often leads to extreme proselytizing of it being the "only way" and that all other ways are renounced as being false, misguided, or even inspired by Satan.

So while they are praising Jesus they are simultaneously dismissing everyone else's spirituality as being yucky misunderstood bull crap. Which is truly sad.
I have no problem with Jesus in general. He's included in my Labyrinth way as part of that archetype. I view him in a totally different way that Christians view him, and I certainly don't see him as being a "savior" at least not the in the sense of being the sacrificial lamb of Yahweh to pay for the "sins of man". But unfortunately that's the mainstream Christian view, and from their point of view if I'm not worshiping Jesus as the King of Kings and Lord or Lords, then I'm falling short of their expectations and all that crap.
It's truly sad that the world has to be like that. But that's just the way it is.
And like you say, that kind of strick dogmatic view often even spills over into other spiritualities like Wicca, etc. People start saying that if you're not casting circles they way they were taught, or not calling upon the "correct deities" then you're not doing it right and your a fraud or whatever. That's just more dogma.
I just ignore it all and do it my way. I'll worship right next to anyone and if they can call upon their deities however they perfer, and give me the same respect to call upon my deities however I perfer then we can all get along.
There's just no need to judge the relationships that other people have with their creator. I wish everyone could learn that one simple thing.