Ok, umbrella, that makes better sense. I'm new to the wicca scene therefore still green blooded and willing to learn :D
What was your first spell?
I just recently read a definition of Wicca on the web. I'm not sure if it's an "official" definition of Wicca, or who is in authority to make such a decision. But from what I could see, the definition was so loose and abstract that would embrace my personal spritiual views and practices. I'm not sure if that automatically makes me a "Wiccan" by definition, or if I have to actually choose to be associated with the label.
As best I can tell, from this definition, a lot of Buddhists would be "Wiccans" too, whether they realize it or not.
I don't cast many spells to be perfectly honest about it. The first spell I cast was a very simple 'love spell'. Although, even though that is what the spell is called, it's not really a spell that causes someone to fall in love. It was simply a spell in which I asked to be placed in contact with a compatible potential partner.
The spell came true within the week, much to my surprise and amazement.
However, I quickly became aware that what I thought I had wanted may not be what I truly want after all. So I permitted the opportunity to slip into oblivion.
In essence it was like as if I had asked for a 747 jet to land on my property being totally unprepared for a plane of that size to safely land here. My wish was granted, but I had to flag the plane off for its own safety.
I have since come to realize that I actually prefer living alone and often times what I think I might want, is not at all what I truly want. So now I've been focusing on things I truly know I want. Like better health, and things like that.