I KNOW AND DUDE!....Ok,I get we all have needs but if you're just looking for that then be honest about it and just say it.Have LONGHARDONE as your screen name who gives a f*** but also put something like 'just looking for fun/intimate partner/casual sex'.Don't sit there and complain about 'BOO HOO,WOE IS ME...I WILL NEVER FIND THE PERFECT ONE.' If you're putting yourself out there like that.It doesn't make sense.This goes for both but I have noticed that the majority who do this are 40+ men and it's just crazy.
Trust me, Spirit....I know where you're coming from. I've seen women be really fed up with it on multiple sites. I myself don't do that, and the men who do actually make it more difficult for the rest of us.
Most of the female profiles like that are actually men who are scammers just looking to get a guy off-site to do their con game.
I've been lucky....In fact, I never expected to generate much interest. Instead, my activity in the Forums has brought forth a good number of responses. Heck, I would like to change my username because it is also my Yahoo name. I can't without deleting my account first though. On the other hand, my username has more to do with my writing and gaming....It was originally meant so people who knew me would easily recognize the name.