I KNOW AND DUDE!....Ok,I get we all have needs but if you're just looking for that then be honest about it and just say it.Have LONGHARDONE as your screen name who gives a f*** but also put something like 'just looking for fun/intimate partner/casual sex'.Don't sit there and complain about 'BOO HOO,WOE IS ME...I WILL NEVER FIND THE PERFECT ONE.' If you're putting yourself out there like that.It doesn't make sense.This goes for both but I have noticed that the majority who do this are 40+ men and it's just crazy.

Hey what's wrong with us dirty perverted old men

Your right many are not interested in a good woman. Unfortunately for you it seems like most guys now are this way. so maybe the next time you meet a guy (admit this or not) don't just look at his outside. i have alot of "single" male friends. All my best friends are single. there either a little overweight or shy or sum thing that you don't like about them. i personally think its because they ARE nice. you girls like those tough guys till a certain age then realize that you can't change a man and look hopelessly for love. love doesn't start right away. i've loved a few girls in my life that i had no attraction to right away but in time there inner beauty came out. so all i can recommend is go out there and find that guy that that you normally wouldn't date and give him a shot(don't be dumb about this). having a little common sense when you meet someone new and not being blinded by new love, and going the extra mile to make that man feel special. trust me, the good guys that are left have spent there whole lives, many times with very few dates, building there lives and dreams around the girl they never get. we are there. you just choose not see us!! go try someone new that you wouldn't have b4. look for the soft hearted guys. not the mean ones and wonder why they beat you. dont look in the bars and then complain they drink. looking back can you not see this?

hope this helps you some. bottom line be a little more open minded and try to remember that the "nice guys" usually don't make 1st moves and if they are not drinking liquid courage from a bottle and may really like you and you will never know or never care to find out cuz you prejudge them. "i want a man that can protect me" We all can carry a gun not just the meat heads and the guys that don't get the girls often appreciate what they have and will actually defend you more if you gave them a chance. Yes there are those that are just straight dorks usually from mental illness that lack the required cash to get professional help. remember every man is created equally. as far as the crazy screen names i do agree. those are the perverts and guys you don't want. most are drunks or druggies that make there hormones explode do to the substance abuse. just step back and look outside the box. stop picking those bad guys and blaming it on all or most on men. its like getting fat on candy and blaming the candy and not yourself for eating it all day..

How 'bout the screen name,
Gotur12"pianisthere?

That's why I love women over forty.
Ya' perv 'em and they're grateful.

I'll agree that those are stupid names to choose, i don't agree that the older guys are dominating the use of them..

Ha!

These gals aint got a clue what dirty and perverted is until they get me drunk.

Just a lil thing to toss into the mix here.......40 +/- HA!

I know 40 year old juveniles. I know 20 year old juveniles.
I know level headed people of all ages.

Let me clue you kids into a little fact that you wont believe...

tommorrowday you will wake up and be 40....and you will laugh at the kid who is calling you old. (and be a little indignant too)

103 IS OLD!!! 40 is just twice as smart as 20.

MY PROBLEM IS,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,JUST TELL THAT TO A WOULD BE DATE!

No games,,no deceptions,,just REAL, and honest about your life..

QFT. I hate seeing the really good posts get lost in a sea of jokes.

ugh no ****. just 2day some 47..or 57 (idr now)yr old had the nerve to send me a snotty email saying I should be more respectful and like sensitive to the old men on here cause one day I WILL B called an "old maid, or old bat" etc etc!! this person was upset cause i added 'nobody over 33!!! what's with all the geezers?' to my headline lol. and as i explained to him i did it out of frustration cause every single person that contacts me on here is @LEAST 40! hello? would you like it if your daughter was on here (with an infants no less) and men your age were trying to date her? if anyone should b offended its ME! HELL no. nasty, get a clue. grrr