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Topic: Are there any honest down to earth women out there
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Guitar87

Sun 01/02/11 03:52 AM

This topic goes out to all the guys who have tryed to ask a women out and ended up failing women what are we men doing wrong are there any real down to earth honest women out there? Help us by giving some tips on what we could be doing wrong. Ihis is an open topic feel free to comment.
Edited by Guitar87 on Sun 01/02/11 03:54 AM
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otherworldliness

Sun 01/02/11 06:51 AM

As a guy, I try not to treat going out as a date, because you will have more fun, and become more comfortable with being yourself. If she is down to earth, she will roll with you (so to speak).. on the other hand, if she doesn't find that comforting, it is time to focus on another person.

I think highly of my self-worth, so she would be fortunate to go out with me (and vice versa). It can be a turn off to woman with this mind set, but it acts as a natural filter to narrow in on the woman that can truly bring you happiness (and that you can make her happy too)
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NINERSLEAFFAN

Sun 01/02/11 07:03 AM

Brother,
there are alot of down to earth honest women everywhere...lots the other way too, just as there alot of male "dogs".
Honesty trust& respect, goes both ways, just as klc ya get what ya give, so give what you want.
best tip I can give is don't try to change someone.....take that person 4 who they are, and if that turns out to not be what you want say thanks and move along, as much as there is give and take, in a relationship, ya cannot give and take a person's personality/traits, only habits, so know what u want and know you are not going to find 100% of that (perfection does not exist, and who wants perfect anyway, less that perfect is character in my books)
"failing women" fail to connect? fail to stay connected?
She's a big world out there with alot of great people everywhere, maybe ya just haven't crossed paths yet, u will.
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TxsGal3333

Sun 01/02/11 07:24 AM


Brother,
there are alot of down to earth honest women everywhere...lots the other way too, just as there alot of male "dogs".
Honesty trust& respect, goes both ways, just as klc ya get what ya give, so give what you want.
best tip I can give is don't try to change someone.....take that person 4 who they are, and if that turns out to not be what you want say thanks and move along, as much as there is give and take, in a relationship, ya cannot give and take a person's personality/traits, only habits, so know what u want and know you are not going to find 100% of that (perfection does not exist, and who wants perfect anyway, less that perfect is character in my books)
"failing women" fail to connect? fail to stay connected?
She's a big world out there with alot of great people everywhere, maybe ya just haven't crossed paths yet, u will.


Could not have said it any better and that is coming from a man!!!:thumbsup:

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esperanza79

Sun 01/02/11 11:36 AM


Brother,
there are alot of down to earth honest women everywhere...lots the other way too, just as there alot of male "dogs".
Honesty trust& respect, goes both ways, just as klc ya get what ya give, so give what you want.
best tip I can give is don't try to change someone.....take that person 4 who they are, and if that turns out to not be what you want say thanks and move along, as much as there is give and take, in a relationship, ya cannot give and take a person's personality/traits, only habits, so know what u want and know you are not going to find 100% of that (perfection does not exist, and who wants perfect anyway, less that perfect is character in my books)
"failing women" fail to connect? fail to stay connected?
She's a big world out there with alot of great people everywhere, maybe ya just haven't crossed paths yet, u will.

Very true. They exist, like great men exist and these are great words!
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singmesweet

Sun 01/02/11 11:46 AM

Confidence goes a long way. Also, be upfront about what you're looking for and not looking for. No one likes getting to know a guy, then finding out he's really looking for something different than he said in the beginning.
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singmesweet

Sun 01/02/11 11:46 AM


As a guy, I try not to treat going out as a date, because you will have more fun, and become more comfortable with being yourself. If she is down to earth, she will roll with you (so to speak).. on the other hand, if she doesn't find that comforting, it is time to focus on another person.

I think highly of my self-worth, so she would be fortunate to go out with me (and vice versa). It can be a turn off to woman with this mind set, but it acts as a natural filter to narrow in on the woman that can truly bring you happiness (and that you can make her happy too)


I don't really see how not treating it like a date is going to change anything, or make you have more fun. You're still going on a date whether you're using the word or not.
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soufiehere

Sun 01/02/11 12:55 PM


I don't really see how not treating it like
a date is going to change anything, or make
ou have more fun. You're still going on a
date whether you're using the word or not.

I go natural.
A la fig.
No dates.
Figs only.
Afterwards, at least you have fig leaves.
Not just pits.
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Corazone

Mon 01/03/11 12:18 AM

i think the not treating it like a date makes sense..it takes the formality out of the equation and then you can just hang out and have fun...really getting to know each other:smile:
Edited by Corazone on Mon 01/03/11 12:20 AM