Topic: Dating a Surrogate Mother
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HasidicEnforcer

Wed 03/30/11 04:27 PM

Would you date a woman that helps other couples have children?

Or would you want to not have her do that on the off chance you might want to have children with her?

Would it make you uncomfortable if your girlfriend was pregnant with someone else's child?
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JJ_Richmond07

Wed 03/30/11 04:36 PM

is this a life time choice and there is no room for having our own child and family? then probably yes i would have a problem with it. If it was for once or a couple times for whatever reason and it didn't stop us from having our own family at some point then no.
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TheShadow

Thu 03/31/11 09:31 PM

I would think it would take a very open minded type of person. As for me it's not something id be comfortable with.
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LovelyWind

Sat 03/31/12 04:13 AM


Would you date a woman that helps other couples have children?

Or would you want to not have her do that on the off chance you might want to have children with her?

Would it make you uncomfortable if your girlfriend was pregnant with someone else's child?


1: I would date a woman that helps others have children.
2: I don't think it matters if I want to have children with her? Why couldn't a person have a child with a surrogate mother?
3: I would not be uncomfortable.
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oldsage

Sat 03/31/12 05:26 AM

What happened before you met, needs to be accepted.
If you become a REAL couple, you will make decisions on your own.
As a "COUPLE", you will make your lives, AS YOU CHOSE.
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LovelyWind

Sun 04/01/12 11:05 PM

I think either myself or others are getting your question wrong.
Are you asking if someone would date a career surrogate mother, as in you do this for your livelihood?

If so, I think it's fine and a noble cause. Of course, I can see at the same time why some male partners would disagree. For one, Jealousy. I think your partner might actually become as attached to the child as you do during your pregnancy due to the simple 9-month anticipation countdown.

be aware, some males just may not be as sexually attracted to a pregnant female compared to her body type when not pregnant. Think of this as the same as your male partner changing physical aspects of themselves on a regular basis. Some maybe OK, others may not feel the same.

I think that surrogate mothers are a blessing to the world, but as with everything else there are sacrifices physical and in this case social as well.

I don't think that a male that is disinterested is being rude, it just may not be within their emotional capacity.

The same goes for all jobs that introduce stress outside of the workplace. Live one day at a time, I say. Do what you feel is right, but also is best for you. :)
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livingfantasy

Mon 12/09/13 02:40 PM

I see no reason to hold it against a woman who is a surrogate for a living or the time being. Although I'd rather meet her while she was already pregnant with someone child than before hand and have to adjust to her being pregnant all the time, I think it would be cool for a woman to share with so many others. As long as I got to be their with her when she gave birth.
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TJTraveler

Thu 10/05/17 10:24 PM

I would mind dating a surrogate mother (pregnant women are gorgeous), but I would want to have children with her eventually (at least 3)
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AFONE2010

Fri 03/02/18 09:56 PM

She would have 100% support from me! Though I too would appreciate being involved in meeting the couple / woman; mainly so I can help with the emotional support she would undoubtedly experience!
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Tom4Uhere

Fri 03/02/18 10:25 PM

Considering the fact that I am looking for a specific age range in dates, Menopause has likely already occurred.
But, I'm not sure if a woman, post-menopause, can carry a fertilized egg from another female to term? I was under the impression that menopause shuts off those hormones needed for zygote development?
Edited by Tom4Uhere on Fri 03/02/18 10:26 PM
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Serchin4MyRedWine

Fri 04/20/18 07:40 PM


Would you date a woman that helps other couples have children?

Or would you want to not have her do that on the off chance you might want to have children with her?

Would it make you uncomfortable if your girlfriend was pregnant with someone else's child?


Is this by artificial insemination or actually having sex with the male member of that couple? Makes a big difference.