are you a masochist?
By your thread, I think that you are a masochist too. I am not sure if Mingle is where you would want to find your Sadist. There are other places on the internet if that tickles your fancy. I always thought that Mingle was more of a Vanilla place. If you do decide to look for your Sadist, well you would want to put something kind of vague in the interest. Out of curiosity I did a search of some common not too offensive words on Mingle. There were only a couple of women in Mingle interested in fetish, and one or two interested in role play. I do have to warn you from personal experience, that indulging in this lifestyle is going to screw up your relationship with women. Most women that I have met over the years are not really interested in being sadistic. Usually the ones that will, have to be compensated. They are called Dominatrixes. If you are that way, you should put that in your profile so ladies will know what to expect, some will be aghast, and some will probably find it to be no big deal. Unfortunately I did go through a phase in my life when I used to enjoy receiving pain. Then I grew up, although in some ways I am fascinated by a sadistic lady. As for being kicked in the groins, well once when I was a kid in a fight. Boy that didn't feel good. Ladies over the year have kicked me in the face and for some reason I would get a charge, rush out of it. For some reason in retrospect I don't understand why. Although I am not a doctor, but if someone enjoys receiving pain; I would suggest that person get help.