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Topic: why is it so hard for single moms to find a good man
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salyersmom

Thu 02/13/14 04:33 PM

Im a single mom of 2 toddlers and it seems like all men want is sex
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Viperedpete58

Thu 02/13/14 04:39 PM

Well miss my thoughts are that when two people share a moment of intamcy the western worlds tends to tell us its a prison sentence the east looks at it as a beautiful experience that two enjoy Google "Osho" and get more insight :-)
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Dodo_David

Thu 02/13/14 07:44 PM


Im a single mom of 2 toddlers and it seems like all men want is sex


If you are still legally married to someone, then why should a single man make an emotional investment in you?
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mightymoe

Thu 02/13/14 07:48 PM



Im a single mom of 2 toddlers and it seems like all men want is sex


If you are still legally married to someone, then why should a single man make an emotional investment in you?


umm... you do understand what single mom means, right?
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RavenHunter82

Fri 02/14/14 12:04 AM

Most guys see single moms and think their easy! I for one don't think that but being a single father myself I know that single fathers tend to be looked at like dead beats! Unfortunately it comes with the single parent look!
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salyersmom

Fri 02/14/14 03:47 AM

The way I Look At It Being a Single Mother Or Father We Are Still People Just Like Everyone Else We Just Have Little Blessings to Take Care Of And love
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salyersmom

Fri 02/14/14 03:50 AM

As far as me Still Being Legeally Married My Divorce Is final Next Week And I Like To Get To Know Someone Before I Date Them So By The Time I Do Go Out I Will Be A Single Mom
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Dodo_David

Fri 02/14/14 05:30 AM


As far as me Still Being Legeally Married My Divorce Is final Next Week And I Like To Get To Know Someone Before I Date Them So By The Time I Do Go Out I Will Be A Single Mom


So, the title of this thread was a bit premature.
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LowRange

Fri 02/14/14 01:50 PM


Most guys see single moms and think their easy! I for one don't think that but being a single father myself I know that single fathers tend to be looked at like dead beats! Unfortunately it comes with the single parent look!

Being a single mom has nothing to do with being easy, thats insulting , im a single mom never been easy , desperate anything different than I ever was before, I take care of my kids on my own , I dont need childcsupport or a dad for them its not a prison sentence to be with people that have kids, were human, were fun, were normal .My life hasn't been put on hold if anything its better .
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salyersmom

Fri 02/14/14 03:06 PM

I agree With U Being A Parent Is Fun And I love My kids More Than Anything
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cheechako

Fri 02/14/14 03:11 PM



Most guys see single moms and think their easy! I for one don't think that but being a single father myself I know that single fathers tend to be looked at like dead beats! Unfortunately it comes with the single parent look!

Being a single mom has nothing to do with being easy, thats insulting , im a single mom never been easy , desperate anything different than I ever was before, I take care of my kids on my own , I dont need childcsupport or a dad for them its not a prison sentence to be with people that have kids, were human, were fun, were normal .My life hasn't been put on hold if anything its better .



The glass is not half empty, it's half full! Good attitude, You rock woman! All the best to you and yours!drinker
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LowRange

Fri 02/14/14 04:25 PM


I agree With U Being A Parent Is Fun And I love My kids More Than Anything


The right guy wont care if you got kids.Hold out for him.
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LowRange

Fri 02/14/14 04:26 PM




Most guys see single moms and think their easy! I for one don't think that but being a single father myself I know that single fathers tend to be looked at like dead beats! Unfortunately it comes with the single parent look!

Being a single mom has nothing to do with being easy, thats insulting , im a single mom never been easy , desperate anything different than I ever was before, I take care of my kids on my own , I dont need childcsupport or a dad for them its not a prison sentence to be with people that have kids, were human, were fun, were normal .My life hasn't been put on hold if anything its better .



The glass is not half empty, it's half full! Good attitude, You rock woman! All the best to you and yours!drinker


Thank you.
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msharmony

Fri 02/14/14 04:36 PM

look at it this way

if diamonds were as easy to find as rocks, they would be of little value

good people (men or women) are like those precious jewels, they may not be the simplest thing to find amidst the average 'rocks', but that's why they are so valuable and cherished once we find them
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LowRange

Fri 02/14/14 04:48 PM


look at it this way

if diamonds were as easy to find as rocks, they would be of little value

good people (men or women) are like those precious jewels, they may not be the simplest thing to find amidst the average 'rocks', but that's why they are so valuable and cherished once we find them



I love that saying , so well spoken and true.
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Dodo_David

Fri 02/14/14 05:40 PM

"why is it so hard for single moms to find a good man"

The title of this thread presents a false dilemma.

A good single mom can find a good man ... and even a good Melmacian. bigsmile
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funkyfranky

Fri 02/14/14 05:55 PM


Im a single mom of 2 toddlers and it seems like all men want is sex

There is a girl who lives in our street.
Like you, 2 kids and single until a couple of years ago.
She is the best mum you could ever imagine,
Her kids are beautiful, well mannered, always polite and she is a credit to society. Works hard and her kids want for nothing.
She has just got married to a great guy who she met about two years go.
Good luck Hun, fairy tales do happen
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salyersmom

Sat 02/15/14 04:37 AM

Thanks To All Of you
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singlecowboy4370

Sat 02/15/14 01:43 PM

i am a full time single dad i have 2 childen under the age of 6. i have fouund that all that women want is sex. no one is willing to commit any more and people seem cold and heartless , and just out for themselves.
Edited by singlecowboy4370 on Sat 02/15/14 01:47 PM
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singlecowboy4370

Sat 02/15/14 01:43 PM

i am a full time single dad i have 2 childen under the age of 6.ci have foujd that alk that women want is sex. bo one is willing to commit any more and people seem cold and heartless