I started to feel that saving myself for marriage wont make any sense,because the girl whom i will be marrying [NO IDEA WHERE IS SHE]in future wont be a virgin.So why saving it?For sake of the religion or for the sake of saving the marriage?I am not desperate to loose it but i dont know if i should save it ??Please Advice

Ok.

So you don't think there are any female virgins left in the world?

Well I know for a fact that you are wrong

Losing your virginity now shouldnt have anything to do with the woman you marry. If YOU feel you want to have sex now then have sex. You said it yourself you're not desperate (which is great) so stop thinking about this future girl and think about your values and morals. If YOU think it's okay to have sex before marriage... condom up! Lol

Cantaloupes are in season!

Sex is all it's cracked up to be.

I didn't give you permission to use my home video.

Sorry, I thought everyone knew!!!

2nd time around virgin :)

Before giving advice, I would have to know if you claim to be a member of a particular religion.

For example, In Christianity, celibacy while single is a virtue.

You have to think and decide if this is important to you, and than wait for the right girl who will have similar values, even though some patience will be necessary... There are such girls (actally greater in number than guys), but if you have already decided that there aren't, you will attract what you believe...But let me tell you: staying pure (non-promiscuous) while single makes this world purer, too, as our actions affect everybody and everything, though i know not many people are aware of this...

remain a virgin until you find a wife, it will help you appreciate more of what ahe has to offer as a woman and i can explain it but even if she is not a virgin she will find some sort of comfort in you being a virgin and it will create a stronger bond because she knows that she is your 1st and she will hopefully strive to be your last... i wih i was a virgin!

Just go ahead and have sex and have it often!

You can always become a born-again virgin lol

Or be like some Christians I know and only participate in oral and ****.. In their eyes it keeps their virginity status intact!

Having sex now can be a win-win situation.

Or, you can just simply lie about it when you get married, that is what I do. I tell every girl it is the first time, after all, it is the first time......with them...

There's nothing wrong with saving it & don't let any one pressure u either. I wasn't pressured but I was also horny as hell. I didn't lose mines til I was 19.......... to myself (*****). I didn't want any one to take it, that didn't deserve it so I took it. I know it sounds stupid but that's how I felt at the time & I'm kinda glad I did cause all the guys I dated as an adult was jerks & surely wasn't thinking of marriage. Good luck on your quest :)

virginity is something that can only be lost once, so make sure it is a nice experience, rather than a lousy night in the backseat of a car. plus everyone lies about it so just wait till it is the right time for you and lie to everyone else if it makes you feel better/ cooler. evn tough no one really cares nowadays

That's my boy right there!!!

he really shouldn't worry. it'll happen eventually. plus teenage sex is utterly disappointing and over too quick. and when you get older it is more satisfying and fun lasting so i guess everyone should wait till they are better equipped

Nothing like the look on your teenage sweethearts face after premature ejaculation occurs

but to be far she probably was expecting it, lol