I have learned...
You can be here for a LONG time mingling and not know the reason someone hates your guts
I figure if they arent interested in telling you, then dont invest energy in it.
With your reply, This makes so much sense!... Yes, best to let it fester as an undercurrent of filth only to reappear and sweep us below the depths of darkness when the timing is just right and the victim is off guard...
Is there something you'd like to add Klc?