what was lost,,,,
Let'��s look at what we have lost.
We have lost our sense of right and wrong. Decisions are based on what works for me -�� on convenience and on compromise not timeless truth. Ultimate standards are replaced by our own ethics. We bend the rules to suit our needs. We become a law unto ourselves. We reason that it’s okay as long as no one finds out.
We have lost our personal integrity. That characteristic is when a person is quality to the core. You can trust this guy. Without integrity in business dealings, rather than God-honoring principles being lived out, people are cut throat, lying and breaking contracts. They will say whatever it takes to get a sale. Pragmatism -�� whatever works – wins out over principle. A person'��s word means almost nothing now.
We have lost our ability to empathize. Our self-centered orientation trumps the perspective of others. We have grown callous. We have quit asking how our choices are going to affect someone else. We no longer ‘do unto others as we would have them do unto us’ (Matthew 7:12).
We have lost our conviction of commitment. Breaking contracts in business is common. Giving up on a marriage without work is the new norm. If it'��s not working -�� push the '��eject button'��. We take the easy path not the right path. We don'��t follow through on our commitments if they don’t make us happy. I am done if there'��s discomfort, work or it might cost me something.
We have lost our absolute standard of truth. People aren'��t reading and studying the Scriptures like they used to. I have seen the changes over three family cycles. Previous generations wore out their Bibles, memorized verses more, attended weekly study groups and generally cared about what God said. Remember the mid- 70'��s saying '��God said it. I believe it. That settles it.'��
You likely don'��t but that'��s how people felt.
the article has suggestions on how we can focus on our compass
http://www.doingfamilyright.com/our-broken-moral-compass-the-truth-and-tragedy-of-a-failing-integrity/
Edited by
msharmony
on Wed 07/30/14 07:54 AM