anonymous I need help..

. I have a bit of a dilemma..
and once again find myself needing..
to seek the counsel of.. the very wise.
. and intuitive..m2. members..lol

.. my issue is this.... hypothetically..
.. if you were in.. the beginning stages of a new relationship.... and intimacy was just around the corner... in this new relationship.... and let's say someone else.. who was showing interest in you.. beforehand.... ask you to go to let's say a concert with them.... would you tell your new love interest... about your invite... and hope she or he understands... that you're going to the concert, because you like the band... and she or he is ok with this..

. or do you just not say anything..

.. and hope you're smart enough never &to bring it up.... I am finding it difficult... to decide... I would want to tell them.... but fearful they may put the brakes on.. the budding relationship.. we all know how.. things can be.. misconstrued .
. a little help ... anonymous..

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.. sometimes I want the relationship to last..lol... geez I'm not a man w****.lol..... I always try to be fair..
and honest with all my dates..
... but she likes me and I like her..
which obviously always helps..lol..
... I just do not wish to kill things before they get going...... and I really don't want to pass up the concert...lol....

just soooo.. damn hard to have your cake and icecream too I guess..lol..
..

What difference does it make?!!??... To hear you tell it, you're in the beginning stages of a new relationship every other week! ...Shuddup and go to the firggin concert....

Leigh2154

just soooo.. damn hard to have your cake and icecream too I guess..lol..
..

she is traveling a great distance just to take me to this concert......
..soo...hmm..

She sounds kinda desperate to me D....